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Lifer
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<< "Would you date a girl just for sex?"


lol, I think a better question might be " do you have this problem anyplace except in your dreams " :D
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LMAO, but so true!
 

Orsorum

Lifer
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<< Uh, since I am single and can't seem to find anyone that is compatible that I can truly love, the answer would be no. I'd feel dirty for having fvcked someone I don't even know that well. How can you even talk to them or see them. "Hi, last night was fun, have a great day." That's just twisted... >>



I agree with you 100%. My beliefs have a little more of a Christian slant to them, but that's one of the biggest reasons for my decision to remain abstinent.

No shame in choosing that point-of-view... give yourself time, you'll do great in relationships, just make sure it means something while you're in it.
 

jjones

Lifer
Oct 9, 2001
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of all the people that answered no, i wonder how many are over the age of 20.

of course i would and have countless times. :)
 

spamsk8r

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Unfortunately, AIDS has done away with the "good old days" of my youth. My old age has also done away with the good old days of my youth. *Sigh* Back then, it was wake up with a burning pee-pee, go get a shot and take monster-horse pills for a week. These days, it's wake up with a burning pee-pee, die about 72 hours later.:Q

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Lol, die haha ... and no I wouldn't, call me old fashioned, but I wanna wait till marriage, don't need any little spamsk8rs running around :confused: :)
 

AreaCode707

Lifer
Sep 21, 2001
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How many of you would consider marrying a girl who you knew used to date just for sex? Or would be willing to admit to the girl you want to marry you that you used to date just for sex? I would never date for sex, nor do I really think too highly of those that do. But if you can answer to both those questions that you don't care, at the very least you're not a hypocrite. The rest of you, rethink maybe.
 

amnesiac

Lifer
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I couldnt' have sex with a girl I didn't have feelings for. I've only had 1 one night stand and it was horrible; I felt so empty afterwards. I see sex as something that should be shared by 2 people who are very close to each other.
 

dbzwukan

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<< How many of you would consider marrying a girl who you knew used to date just for sex? Or would be willing to admit to the girl you want to marry you that you used to date just for sex? I would never date for sex, nor do I really think too highly of those that do. But if you can answer to both those questions that you don't care, at the very least you're not a hypocrite. The rest of you, rethink maybe. >>


excuse me, but i think if a girl used to date just for sex, that's usually not the information she would share. one can only HOPE that their mate is "clean" but hey... don't be a prude.. what's wrong with sex?

in my 'sleep around' phase, i'd hope all the chicks i dated are doing the same thing..that makes it easier for me to squick them.

maybe a couple years later when i'm in a 'seek mate' mode, i'd hope my mate doesn't used to do that...or just don't tell me about it.

defination of sluts : someone who sleeps with one more person than you. (funny joke, my psych. prof mentioned)
 

Of course.



<< Anyone that says "yes" is an @ss in my opinion. >>


lol. Women do it all the time.
 

Deeko

Lifer
Jun 16, 2000
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No. I couldn't do that. My relationship now is the opposite, we haven't had sex, and if we do, it won't be for awhile.
 

Aceman

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Oct 9, 1999
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Would I? I did.........from 1987-1993. During that time I had two serious relationships (Each lasted about 9 months) and roughly 36 long lasting one night stands.
 

Spikesoldier

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Oct 15, 2001
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The way a man works is there are two ideal women.

1. The one that is very hot and sexy and you would want to take to the bed

2. The one that is nice and you would want to take home to mom and not have her slap you, but be proud.

If I was single, and had no other relationships, then yes.
 

Pastfinder

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Jul 2, 2000
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"of all the people that answered no, i wonder how many are over the age of 20."

I'm 21, and no, I don't drink myself to stupidity while in college.
 

cherrytwist

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In my bachelor days I dated girls just for sex...as long as it was a mutual thing.

I never misled women by lying to them tell them I loved them or sh!t like that.

You can be mature about it and have a mutually sexual relationship without being a prick.

And there's nothing wrong with that IMO.