I have to finish running errands at the moment (browsing on my phone), but I'll try to answer your questions more thoroughly tonight.
Thanks!
The 5850 is fine for BF3 high settings at 1080p resolution. Just remember to use post AA medium instead of MSAA. 5850 @ 875/1200 is about the same as a 5870. Bump voltage to around 1.25v to try for 1000mhz. Furmark is a horrible benchmark to check oc performance. Use stalker cop benchmark. I measured over 30% speed gain there.
Funny enough, the 875/1200 I've got tested for 15 minutes under burn-in, didn't hold in TW2. The ATI driver started crashing and recovering almost immediately but funnily enough the game didn't crash, just froze and waited for the driver to recover