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Could that be your own problem?

You are sure your member didn't have any change recently? 🙂
 
here is a thought.....

just ask her.


This is a perfectly good reason why kids should not have sex, you just don't have the mental capacity to handle it.
 
easy way to tell if she was lying:

scoop up some of her *stuff*, and bake a loaf of bread in your oven.

if it rises, she wasn't lying about yeast infection.
if it doesn't rise, then she was lying.


😉
 
But during it I felt awkard and I'm sure she picked up on it, but she didn't care to ask what was wrong... I dunno... this is just the first time in 6 months that things have been "different" especially after she goes away for 4 days in a hotel room with guys in the vicinity...
 
Its not a very good relationship if you cant ask each questions. Then again its not very good if you cant trusther around other guys. I all but guarentee you that you're sort of imaging this too, such a 'uh "pressure difference" would be quite hard to tell. That is unless you can like walk outside and tell me how hard the wind is blowing against your pants to within 3 mph.
 
dunno, but it sounds like you're trolling for some added spice to make your relationship a bit more interesting. Best advice is to not pursue this topic any further with your gf. Chalk it up to experience and let it become a memory or else it could really sour you and your gf.
 
if you can't trust her , you have no busines "being" with her. Relationships are based on trust and honesty. If it doesn't exist for you, theres no relationship.

Next thing you know you'll be stalking her, and hopefully she wont end up a victim.
 
Yo dawg, you have no business asking people especially on a BBS about your relationship. None of them are gonna take the heat if they give you the wrong advice. Your the one that's gonna take it so decide on your own.

Also, get a little more self-confidence and grow a little more trust. You're gonna be nothing but paranoid if you continue this line of thought. And that'll really drive your girl to cheat on you, just to smite you. And that's when I swing into action. Naw, just clownin you. But don't get caught up in this, she went on a trip without me and had a fun type with guys thing. It's not healthy for you or for her.
 
I think you're just being paranoid stratusfear. If you do trust her and love her, then there is nothing to be worried about.

Have you guys been apart for this long before?
 
I feel a bit odd replying to this, but what the heck.

First of all, yeast infections can be cleared up in as little as 3 days.

Second, just as it will stretch easily, so shall it returneth unless she gave birth sometime between Wed. and Sat.

Sounds to me like the only stretching going on here is your imagination. Are you sure that you're not so afraid that she cheated on you that you're looking for some sort of evidence of it, no matter how unusual it may be?
 
When a woman is excited, she becomes lubricated. The more excited she is, the more lubricated she is. Yeast infections also cause more lubrication. A woman who is more lubricated than normal may feel "loose" since there is less friction going on.

Strat, unless you're as big as a toothpick, and her supposed camp lover is the size of long dong silver, I highly doubt you'd feel any difference do to any stretching.

I'd chalk it up to her being REALLY happy to see you and therefore becoming highly "wet", and if she does indeed have a yeast infection, twice as lubed as normal. The lack of friction is what you sensed as her being "stretched."

Take a chill pill, and give her the benefit of the doubt.
 
It sounds suspicious to me. Whenever my girlfriend get an infection, the last thing she wants to do is have sex. It hurts. If it felt REALLY different, you might have a problem.
 
Sounds fishy to me. Did it smell fishy to you? j/k🙂

I would not be to fast to bestow more trust in her right now, as she most surely did cheat on you.
 
I think you have some maturing to do before you go much farther in this relationship. First, just because there were guys in the motel, doesn't mean that she will automatically forget all her morals and whore herself out. People are perfectly able to go on a trip and not be promiscuous. Second, a man's unit is perfectly able to be a little larger or smaller on different days. Size is completely determined by how much blood flow is going to the area, and if you have slightly less blood flow that day, your size will also be smaller. It's incredibly insensitive to accuse her of being unfaithful because something didn't feel the same when you were probably the one to blame. Do both of you a favor and quit with the sex until you mature a little more emotionally and mentally.
 
I think if you love her you've disrespected her with this post. You've also opened yourself up to start doubting her every action that doesn't fit in line with what you expect or have come familiar with.😱 If she cheated on you, let her go. Just ask her, if you know her so 'intimately' you should easily be able to tell if shes lying to you.
 
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