Depends on the girl. If it's "right", and she won't find out that you passed up money, then it's all good. If things are touch and go, money all the way. If things are perfect and she'll find out that you passed up a shatload of money, that's a HUGE conflict because you just don't know how a woman will act in this situation, and you might very well end up with neither the money nor the girl.
There'll always be more money. There might never be another soulmate. But on the other hand, there'll always be another good lay, but there might never be another $5 million for nothing.