FINAL UPDATE -- AND A BIG TIP TO ANYONE STRUGGLING TO GET 4x STICKS OF RAM RUNNING AT DDR400!!!
I now have my system running at DDR400 reliably. I have over 24 hours of memtest86+ tests without a single error, and nearly that much "user" time with no problems.
Here's what I did - instead of installing the memory sticks in the "matched pairs" as supplied by OCZ, I mixed them up. Much to my surprise that did the trick!
As it was explained in another forum:
"The problem is that populating all four DIMM slots on a motherboard puts a high capacitive load on the memory controllers. That load, in turn, can have a negative effect on the signal quality and hence hurt the ability of the system as a whole of operating at very high clock speeds.
As for what you can do, sometimes it is worth swapping the modules around to see if it will help. Sometimes there are unit to unit variations and installing the modules in a different order can help with your configuration."