My folks bought a home in Orlando, Florida in mid 1995. It was a nice home, 2,500 s/f not including the garage or patio sitting on a double lot (on a corner 25,000 s/f). The home had 4 beds, 2 baths, separate living room and family room, separate dining room, breakfast dining room, large kitchen, 1000 s/f patio with a 40 foot long, 25 foot wide screened pool in the back yard with a custom "lagoon" style waterfall. The entire yard was professionally landscaped with a professionally installed sprinkler system. There was a 2 1/2 car attached garage, outside kitchen area with a professional grill and refrigerator. This was a nice, middle class home for the time in a nice, clean, new neighborhood. They paid, $99,000. Now, anyone guess what that home sold for in 2005, just ten years later? $425,000.
When my parents bought the home, my dad was making about 45k and my mother was making about 30k or roughly $75k combined. Both were college educated and for that time their salaries were considered respectable for their titles. I wanted to buy the house from my parents in 2005 when they sold it, but I just didn't have the money. In 2005 when the home sold for $425,000 I was making $42k and my wife was making 35k - roughly the exact same amount as my parents ten years ago. There was just no way we could afford the house, and my parents did what was best for them financially (I would have too) and sold it for as much as they could. Selling it to me for a discount would have been foolish. The house sold for roughly 4.2 times it's original price - but I was making no where close to 4.2x75k/year.
I ended up moving out of Florida this past September after living there for 14 years. The housing market there just got to be out of control. My wife and I, both worked professional jobs, couldn't buy anything. Even the nasty areas had moved beyond our reach. 200k for a house in the ghetto where people are raped, mugged and murdered almost daily? No way I am moving my family into something like that. We had the option of moving north of Orlando away from the metro area to the Deltona area where prices were more reasonable, but the commute for me would have been 3 hours total per day in the car.
So, like I said we moved away. And like others have posted on here already, the housing market is growing faster than our incomes. We are operating at a deficit just by working at all. Each year I get a raise, but actually make LESS that the previous year because the housing market is out of control and the cost of goods and services has risen as well. For example. I rented a condo in 2004 that was 1,500 s/f, 2-2 for $890/month - that same condo now is renting for $1,600/month. It practically doubled in four years. In the meantime my income hasn't come CLOSE to doubling in four years.