Originally posted by: DAGTA
Freshmen in college... so why are the parents still footing her bills? She's an adult now. Never had a job before? Sounds like some crappy parenting to me.
Obvious nonparent.
D*mn near every kid screws up big time in some way. Sometimes it's smashing up the family car, sometimes calling 900 lines, brushes with juvenile law, etc. Some of this stuff you can protect yourself against but not all of it. All of costs, and all is wasted money. Massive cell phone abuse is not all that unusual-I know a young lady who managed to blow a small inheritance on cellphone bills and smashed cars, which was the end of her college career.
What the parent should have done beforehand is laid it out to their kid what the monthly allotment is and that they are paying for any excess, even if it comes out of their beer and ramen noodles fund. Also point out that they can check online at any time. When I gave my daughter her cell phone I made it very clear that it will last only as long as she stays within the plan. She has done a pretty good job of this in three plus years.
What I'd do at this point? No cell phone at all until she makes and begins to follow repayment arrangements to her parent. Why let her have the phone back before the bill is paid off-her safety walking around campus is more important than a few bucks.
One thing parents should make very clear to kids is how much college is actually costing the parents-it's brutal. believe me.