Spying on other countries is most certainly part of the game, but that's also irrelevant. Russia attempting to interfere in our elections is a hostile move that demands a response. It is not something any sovereign country should ever accept.
That's a novel take, that Russia repeatedly invading its neighbors isn't Russia's fault, it's the US's fault! Here's a tip: the only entity to blame for Russia invading its neighbors is Russia.
There's a reason why all of Russia's neighbors want into NATO so badly, it's because of Russia's long, long history of attacking them without provocation. Russia can beat up on them with impunity, and as history shows it does. Russia is terrified of NATO though.
It should tell you a lot that you view a literal Russian state propaganda network as closer to reality than the Washington Post. I strongly suggest you take a step back and think about why you think propaganda is more credible than actual newspapers.