Originally posted by: Beau
You need to look up the meaning of "child"
child
n. pl. chil·dren (chldrn)
A person between birth and puberty.
Thank you Beau, I was gonna say that.
Thank you Beau, I was gonna say that.
Those who didn't get the opportunity and are now trying to say that very lack of opportunity was due to high moral character?
I totally agree. It's different, and a double standard. Physiology 101 teaches us that girls actually endure a physicaly change when having sex for the first time. Psychology says that sex is totally different for most females than males to. The boy will have no mental scarring (though he will probably start having sex with other girls now...) and no physical changes either.
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Now that doesn't mean that I approve of this practice. I definitely don't think that we should say it's wrong one way and ok the other. I was merely remarking that the effects of this are probably less damaging than if the sexes were reversed.
they must not have too much news in that county - the detail in that article is pretty funny...
So the girl would probably be scarred but the boy wouldn't? How do you back that up? (I'm being serious too, I'd like to know- not asking to be an ass this time
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Originally posted by: remagavon
So the girl would probably be scarred but the boy wouldn't? How do you back that up? (I'm being serious too, I'd like to know- not asking to be an ass this time
Well, just picture how they will now be looked upon by their piers (and thus treated accordingly). Meaning, imagine if it were a 14 yr. old girl sleeping with an older man. Many her age might badge her as a slut, and it's unlikely this incident would bring her any praise from her piers. From what I remember in middle school (approx 13 years ago), the girls that were known to be sexually active were not looked up to by girls, but were drooled over by boys. So if it were a 14 yr. old girl, she'd probably be getting unwanted attention by overly horny boys her age, since they all now know "dude, she puts out!". Along with the chastising by her other female piers, etc., I would think this would have to have a negative impact on her emotions, and certainly her outlook on her ordeal with the 23 yr. old man, which at one point she probably thought was fun or a good thing.
Now, on the other hand, imagine the praise the 14 yr. old boy is getting from his piers? "Right on man! wish it had of been me!" stuff like that I'm sure has been said to him. He is seen as quite mature, already losing the big V, not to mention with a hot older woman. Heck, he's envied by guys in their 20's (presumably) on this very message board. With all this praise coming your way, how could you possibly feel guilty or shameful about this event? Now, he may grow up to be tad cocky or arrogant, but in general, I'd say being over-confident is better than having very little confidence.
There isn't any science that I know of in the above, it's just what I observed going through my teens, talking to sexually active boys that were in their early teens, and seeing how they were viewed by other guys their age. Breakss down as, if you're a guy, and you've banging a hot chick, the majority (assuming again) of guys his age that spank it when they are home alone, will envy this guy, and let him know how cool they think he is. I doubt you'd see that same reaction if it were a girl in this instance.... she would be often labeled "the victim" where the boy is largely viewed as "my hero!".
Originally posted by: remagavon
So the girl would probably be scarred but the boy wouldn't? How do you back that up? (I'm being serious too, I'd like to know- not asking to be an ass this time
Just from common knowledge... Take this thread for instance: it's a perfect example of how our society works. Older men with younger women is not as socially accepted as if the sexes were switched. Male rapists are hated worse than females. Lesbian sex is more socially accepted than gay sex. All these opinions are based on, IMO, the underlying instincts of passing the seed and the right to breed. Throughout nature, mating occurs with the FEMALE decides it's time: when she's ready physically, and, in some situations, mentally/emotionally. It strikes a deep nerve with society if a female is raped, or taken with consent, before social maturity because she is not considered to be ready by natural standards (physically or mentally [not willing]). However, if you switch the sexes, and the male is the younger or victim, there is little physical change he will have to endure once the event is over (granted it's not a violent act). There is no time-enduring consequence for the male (short of an STD) like pregnancy, and the general consensus is that sex affects women differently than men: for women it's more emotional, thus emotions are more apt to be scarred or developed in an inappropriate sexual act.
Of course, that's only my opinion. I could be wrong. But, it makes sense.
How often have you heard of an actual rape committed by a woman? I mean that wasn't done to child etc.
because its fun for guys to watch :beer: Women don't want to see gay guys
That teacher wanted it! Just look at the photos! She's a whore who probably had her legs spread opened on the first day of class.
Jesus where did you go to school? The playboy mansion? I mean I've seen hotter chicks at college, but seriously dude, I'd still hit it.
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how crappy would you feel if your wife left you for some 14 year old...hah that guy's gotta be pissed!
i don't feel like addressing most of this thread (too lazy ) but i will bet that the couple had an open relationship...
okay, i will also say that i remember i when i was in the third grade even, most boys i knew minds were so dirty... it might not have been exactly correct concepts about the the birzs and beez, but it sho wasn't nothing i could print here either
them boys mamas jumped in this and that's the cause and effect -- the girl should have known that boy wasn't gonna keep that secret! he's a boy. most men wouldn't have kept their mouths shut, let alone a 14 yr old...
it's america, wal-mart and stuff and maxim magazines basically
) but i will bet that the couple had an open relationship... okay, i will also say that i remember i when i was in the third grade even, most boys i knew minds were so dirty... it might not have been exactly correct concepts about the the birzs and beez, but it sho wasn't nothing i could print here either
them boys mamas jumped in this and that's the cause and effect -- the girl should have known that boy wasn't gonna keep that secret! he's a boy. most men wouldn't have kept their mouths shut, let alone a 14 yr old...
it's america, wal-mart and stuff and maxim magazines basically
Actually, quite a few times. The guys that I have talked to don't realize it was rape, though. In fact, the first one I can think of was on ATOT, the guy was posting how he'd gone to... either Canada or Mexico, was partying with some friends and had spent the night being hit on by a corpulent female friend... he passed out, and woke up as she was mounting him. IIRC that was when he lost his virginity, too.
Now that I think about it, does anyone remember that thread? Was a couple years ago.
**ALERT ALERT ALERT** You are going dangerously close to an old but well known site much hated and tragically admired far and wide...
Edit: O...ooOO? that afore mentioned site is now down?
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