One lady had cute baby videos up but never appeared in them. I had subbed for a while but never commented other than a profile comment saying her vids were cute. When she finally had the courage to appear and play the piano while drinking White Zinfandel, I left a simple comment but nothing fancy. Out of her 30 videos, mine was the only comment. She messaged me and asked if I knew her. Of course I didnt and said if she didnt want comments and I would not do so, I would even unsub if she wanted. Whatever made her happy. She hasnt indicated her response yet.