The OP has no penis.
Though every guy has done something desperate.
Sometimes you just gotta let go.
Though every guy has done something desperate.
Sometimes you just gotta let go.
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Medicine's usually good for ya.
:music: Your love is like baaaaad medicine... :music:
Too late for that now. WTH? What is with your email? If you really cared for the girl, and it is obvious she doesn't want to talk, then back off, but what is with the mean spiritedness. Dang dude, grow up!
Funny thing is, I can kind of relate to your situation in more ways than one, but I didn't freak out like you did. The girl doesn't feel the same connection as your do. Leave it at that and move on. If she decides to talk later, that is her perogative, but why the heck would you do something so asinine as sending an email that would make things worse than they are?
If you want to keep the friendship, then talk to her, email her, or message her about the issue, but don't push it like you just did. If she gives you the runaround, that is her choice and you need to back off. Live and learn buddy. You can't force anyone to love/like you. It just wasn't in the cards. Now that you acted like as ass, chances are you have lost a friendship, it will always be distant for you two and any of your peers. Good job there. :roll:
Hey I just got played a few weeks ago, but if your like me you saw it coming (consciously or subconsciously) so it only stings your pride and not your emotions.
moshquerade
No Lifer
- Nov 1, 2001
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Given the onslaught of communication that you have unleashed upon this girl, is there really any question why she may not be wanting to talk/email/IM/text with you?
You've made it painfully obvious that there's nothing but drama and misery awaiting her if she should attempt to contact you, so she's taking the easy road and ignoring you. I mean, wouldn't you do the same if you were in her shoes at this point?
You've made it painfully obvious that there's nothing but drama and misery awaiting her if she should attempt to contact you, so she's taking the easy road and ignoring you. I mean, wouldn't you do the same if you were in her shoes at this point?
well, we both have an EXTENSIVE history of being cheated on, and considering I went ahead and warned her about the craziness of the last message, it already looks like she will let it go.
The thing is though, I'M NOT letting it go. No matter what I tell he we are no longer exclusive...
The thing is though, I'M NOT letting it go. No matter what I tell he we are no longer exclusive...
meltdown75
Lifer
- Nov 17, 2004
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you cannot win this situation. its too late. you showed your hand way to early and you will not be able to recover.
Just one thing. You won't get "answers". And if you got all the answers in the world, it wouldn't make you any happier or change reality. The reality is that she doesn't feel the same way about you and this isn't going to work.
Accept that, move on with your life. Stop whining and begging her to explain herself, you'll only make things worse between you two and extend the pain.
Accept that, move on with your life. Stop whining and begging her to explain herself, you'll only make things worse between you two and extend the pain.
ViviTheMage
Lifer
look at the language in which you communicate to her. This one line subcommunicates all the wrong things "but you OWE it to me to tell me SOMETHING...take care of yourself, but I already know you will.... "
YOU OWE ME SOMETHING!!!! What is more needy and desperate than that? "TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!!!! Is she going off to war? No! You are disqualifying yourself...Why don't you just say hey I am a low value beta male, I have no self worth so carry on with your life and don't worry about me.
you come off very needy, desperate, low self esteem. Not attractive qualities to a woman. A woman wants a man who is confident, secure, a protector, someone she can feel safe with someone whose reality isn't shaken if a girl doesnt call him back or answer his IMs..... you sound wimpy and I think its too late for you to talk your way out of it.
LOL Ice, yeah, that last line should have not been included. The thing was, I already considered it OVER, and to be honest w/ ya, I still do.
She is an amazing lay though, as in a freak who does all the right things, and I LOVE it. But hey, I got a new strategy for dealing with females:
Date multiple girls to the point I have a hard time remembering their names. I will NEVER be the one to initiate "exclusive" talks. If the girl wants to be exclusive, then she can PUT UP OR SHUT UP. Meaning, do something that makes me want to be exclusive w/ you. If I am already screwing the girl, then why should I care if we are exclusive or not anyway? You are right about the "beta-male" thing, because an Alpha could care less about being exclusive, and that is my new policy.
And megan is coming over tomorrow. If steph wants me to consider canceling on Meg, then she can drop by between her doubles and make me feel wanted....
She is an amazing lay though, as in a freak who does all the right things, and I LOVE it. But hey, I got a new strategy for dealing with females:
Date multiple girls to the point I have a hard time remembering their names. I will NEVER be the one to initiate "exclusive" talks. If the girl wants to be exclusive, then she can PUT UP OR SHUT UP. Meaning, do something that makes me want to be exclusive w/ you. If I am already screwing the girl, then why should I care if we are exclusive or not anyway? You are right about the "beta-male" thing, because an Alpha could care less about being exclusive, and that is my new policy.
And megan is coming over tomorrow. If steph wants me to consider canceling on Meg, then she can drop by between her doubles and make me feel wanted....
That is a good policy. You are still very young just have fun with the girls now. Don't waste so much time ho chasing it aint worth the drama and the stress. Focus your energy on your personal/business/financial goals. You will be beating them off with bats soon enough. Never be afraid to just walk away when they are exhibiting poor behavior, even if the nookie is good. You'll be pleasantly surprised when they out of the blue call you for a visit in the middle of the night :thumbsup:
LOL, I just got deleted on Myspace, we were on the phone, and when I asked what happened she hung up. WOW
I can't go clubbing until Thursday at the earliest. Guys, what can I do other than go workout a second time to stay sane? I am not even playing w/ you guys and I understand that sounds pathetic. I don't trust myself right now. I have lots of disposable money also, I need to get happy fast
I can't go clubbing until Thursday at the earliest. Guys, what can I do other than go workout a second time to stay sane? I am not even playing w/ you guys and I understand that sounds pathetic. I don't trust myself right now. I have lots of disposable money also, I need to get happy fast
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