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2000 Decade Self Reflection. Would your younger self kick your ass, or applaud you?

DanTMWTMP

Lifer
Since, officially, a new decade has started, let's reflect a bit.

Would that aspiring 18-year-old kid that you were once were kick your ass, or tell you, "good job me," after he/she finds out what you've been doing all these years since then?

My own reflection:
In the year 2000, I was 18/19 years old. I finished high school, and was just entering college. I was anxious, excited, and ambitious. I was an EE major, and was ready to kick life's ass...

Now that I'm turning 30 later this year, I'm wondering wtf I just did with my life. Back then, I figured I'd almost get married by now, be successful, own my own house, my own car, in good health, Lakers winning championships.. etc... Have I done and experienced any of these things?

Well, I'm still single, don't make a whole lot of money compared to what I've envisioned, but my life has nearly no stress. hehehe 🙂.

Instead of a steady relationship, I've had flings and currently in an open-relationship (if that makes any sense).. and still having a lot of fun traveling this tiny earth.

Instead of making a lot of money and owning a big house, I've learned and become somewhat fiscally responsible. I've paid for my own education, paid off my econobox mazda3, and do own my own small bachelors' pad(condo). Shoot, one thing that wasn't responsible was taking 5 years to graduate (and one more extra year in an attempt to apply to grad school hahaha). FAIL. Stupid computer games..

I'd say in some sense, my 18-yr old self will kick my lazy ass because I'm not as in shape as I was when I was 18, taking 5 years to graduate, and not being in a stable relationship. But then, I'll tell him that he will experience the world's oceans and nations; see many things, and meet many very cool and intelligent people (and many girls :sneaky🙂. Sure he'll miss his family and friends back home, but oh man what a story he'll have for the next generation.

Bottom line:
18-year-old Dan will kick my ass, but shake my hand after for being somewhat cool 😎.. then high-five me because the Lakers have won back-to-back NBA championships 😛


I've seen a lot of members here go from college graduates to being successful and responsible family men. I don't know you guys, apart from what I read on the forums, but it's been very cool to see this community "grow up" together.
 
I dunno.. I had a pretty good decade. Graduated highschool in 2002, graduated college 2006, got a good job, got married, got a house, and managed to save almost 100K toward retirement during the recession.

Nothin' to complain about here. Here's hoping this decade will be as good as the last!

P.S. Is this what you put in your christmas letter you sent to all your family/friends?
 
I'd like to see my 18 year old self try. If anything, I would go back in time and kick my younger self's ass. I wouldn't say I was a bad kid, but I thought much too highly of myself. If there's one thing I've learned as I've grown older, it's that I'm not special. That said, I find myself being arrogant at times, so I still need to tone it down.
 
Hello and welcome to last year. It only matter when the odometer rolls over.

But if you want to be all technical about it.....

I was better off in 2001 than in 2011......at least as of this moment. But Im expecting some large windfalls to come my way this year.

The last decade has basically sucked though. Hard.

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The last decade has been pretty kind to me, despite a few ups and downs. Now, if only I could have the last part of the 80s and the 90s back...
 
Good topic.

In the last decade I got married, had two beautiful daughters, earn a nice living, have his and her cars, and I am meeting with a developer who may be building my house. Those are the positives.

The negatives are I need to drop some pounds and get back in shape, need to significantly reduce the stress in my life, need to sleep like a normal human being again, need to find some downtime to relax.

So overall I think I would be cool with me.
 
In 2000 I was a happy, carefree spirit with all the friends a kid could ask for, yet the envy of all my peers. Today I spend my time wallowing in self-misery, and if it's too much to handle, I place some of it on various internet forums to share. 2000-me would kill himself if he saw 2010-me.
 
im in a similar boat as you, although I have a house and a wife now. I'm not making as much money as I hoped to be, and I havent applied to grad schools yet. The grad school thing is probably the biggest regret of my 20's
 
There's no way my younger self could take me, so he just sits in the corner brooding... biding his time, just biding his time.
 
I lost 250 lbs, graduated college, moved out on my own, make decent money, and get laid on a regular basis.

other than being single, I think my 19 year-old self would be happy with my 29 year-old self.
 
I lost 250 lbs, graduated college, moved out on my own, make decent money, and get laid on a regular basis.

other than being single, I think my 19 year-old self would be happy with my 29 year-old self.

You mean you weren't getting laid on a regular basis when you had an extra 250lbs on your frame? 😱
 
Shouldn't this have been done last year 😕

Anyways, I turned 13 in 2001 so uh, a lot has changed I guess. Back then I guess I knew I probably wanted to be an engineer when I grew up, but other than that...not much. In general I think I would be thrilled with where I am now - engineering degree from a top university in 4 years, great job that I love at 22, have my own place, in better shape than I was as a high school athlete, great relationship with my family...

I probably wouldn't be happy with my 7-year wasted relationship, but I could at least respect that I learned plenty from it and am happier now.

The next ten years will probably be more interesting.
 
I'm pretty confident I could beat my 2000 self's ass. I was a lot weaker back then. That, and I would remember the beating I received from myself when I was younger and would already know what worked.
 
I'm pretty confident I could beat my 2000 self's ass. I was a lot weaker back then.
This old man now has a shit ton of guns. Bring it on ME v.2000!

Ahead on the $$, so far so good on the self employed front. No complaints. I know/see a lot with it way worse.
 
I would left high kick my 12 year old self into a coma:

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does every single one of your posts include a retarded animated gif?

As for the OP, I think the 2001 me would be shocked at the 2011 me. Lots of ups and downs, but I and my family still have out health and love. So no complaints.

Now if I could go back to 1991 and kick my young-self's ass. Sign me up.
 
the last ten years were pretty tumultuous for me, lots of ups and downs, successes and failures.

overall, i'm glad i'm past it, but would not like to repeat it.
 
Last 10 years have been pretty good to me.

Stayed married, stayed gainfully employed, paid off the house and all other debts.

I thought our 401K and other investments would do better, but it looks like I will be working longer than I had planned 🙂.
 
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