17 minutes to inspire you to change your life

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Kaido

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I have vastly different views on procrastination, having been a professional crastinator my whole life :D I used to read stuff like those motivational quotes & get a nice, short-term motivated feeling and maybe go do one or two things & feel excited about it, but that fades within like, a day, if not hours, as soon as you get distracted by something else or feel tired or it gets too hard. I think there are 3 things that contribute to productivity:

1. Having a clear goal that you are committed to
2. Managing your energy on a daily basis to pursue that goal
3. Setting up your environment so that it's structured to make it easy

Hazy goals = hazy results. Not being committed to your goals = questionable consistency. You have to figure out what you want, and you have to make a commitment to pursue it, whether it's losing fat, building muscle, finishing a college degree, anything.

Next, you need the energy to do the tasks every day. This is a daily decision. If you stay up late & eat crap food and your energy is garbage the next day, then you're going to have to fight yourself to do the simple tasks you need to do to not procrastinate on what you're working on. I'm a naturally low-energy person and I have to be careful about how much sleep I get & what I eat if I want to have a high or low energy level the next day. If you're tired, it's mentally hard, and if you don't feel good, it's physically hard, so if you're trying to not procrastinate on life, that gets really hard if you don't feel good mentally or physically.

Lastly, you need to make it easy on yourself. The less friction you have, the better. McDonalds makes billions because all you have to is drive through, give them money, and you get hot, delicious food handed to you with zero time or effort required. Is your fridge setup with pre-cooked bodybuilding meals? Is your exercise machine accessible and do you have a TV setup to entertain you? Do you have a quiet, well-lit place to study with all of the paper & pencils you need to do your homework? The easier you make it on yourself, the more likely you will be to do it. If you have to drag an exercise machine out every day when you want to workout, or clean off the table every time you want to study, or cook every single meal, then that's just one step harder you're making it on yourself.

If you do feel like you need an inspirational kick in the pants, I recommend reading the book "Attitude is Everything" by Jeff Keller. It's available for $3 on Kindle right now:

http://www.amazon.com/Attitude-Every...dp/B007FXULUE/

Bottom line is, most of us don't think about the attitude that we have when we approach life, especially when we work on things we don't really want to do like cardio or homework or doing the dishes. However, you can choose what attitude you have, and that helps greatly reduce procrastination because you're not just responding to how you feel, you're making a conscious decision about how you want to live. And even that takes work, because it's a habit...takes a few weeks of daily effort to develop it.
 

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#4 distraction free environment.....No more ATOT?

Screw that.



I think the #1 reason I procrastinate is that I'm lazy.
 

Kaido

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#4 distraction free environment.....No more ATOT?

Screw that.



I think the #1 reason I procrastinate is that I'm lazy.

I don't think so much a distraction-free environment, as much as an environment structured to make it easier to achieve your goal than not. Like, I carry a huge lunchbox around with me every day. It has all of my meals ready to eat inside. I eat every few hours. This makes it much easier to follow my dietary goals because I can cave to healthy food instead of junk food. You'll never really get a distraction-free environment...like with food, someone always brings in donuts and stuff to work, or birthday cake, or whatever, which is fine if fits in your diet, but you can also stack the odds in your favor if it's not.

I think laziness has something to do with it, but I think that laziness is mostly just being a little bit too tired to try on a consistent daily basis. When you feel good, everything is easy. Plus, being committed to an awesome goal with a step-by-step plan is highly motivating, so if you've got a strong goal & energy, it's not too hard to eat well, do a daily workout, etc. because you know what you want, you know how to get it, and you feel good enough that it's not a mental stumbling block. It kind of sounds like a bunch of BS when I read all that stuff I just wrote, but if you take it seriously...I mean, if you ask a random person who wants to lose some weight & get in shape what they've done:

1. Do you have a specific goal?
2. Do you have a step-by-step plan to achieve that goal?
3. Have you committed yourself to that goal?
4. Are you going to bed at a reasonable hour?
5. Are you getting sufficient hours of sleep?
6. Are you eating healthy foods every day?
7. Are you following a daily exercise routine?

I don't think that's laziness...it's simply a series of choices:

1. Making the choice of what goal you want
2. Making the choice of which plan to follow
3. Making the choice to commit yourself to the goal & plan
4. Making the choice to manage your bedtime & how many hours you sleep so you aren't too tired to fight the battle every day
5. Making the choice to buy or prepare healthy meals & have them on-hand so you don't cave to junk food
6. Making the choice to do your workout today

I mean, when you break it down, it's lifting a fork, doing a pushup, and going to sleep. None of those are very hard things to do individually, which is how you get things done over time - small, simple things every day. I can eat chicken just as easily as a candy bar. I can go to sleep just as easily at 9:30pm as I can at midnight. So I don't think it's laziness, as much as just being uncommitted & being a little bit too tired, which makes it easy to push it off to tomorrow. If you commit to something & manage your energy so you feel good, it's pretty easy to stay motivated imo.
 

Kaido

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Thanks Kaido

Thanks Kaido, that was an awesome post.

You're both welcome, thanks! What makes it difficult is living inside a mortal body where you get tired & don't want to think about things. The problem with motivational stuff is that, while you're in "change mode", everything sounds great & you get all hyped up, but it wears off when you go back to your day-to-day "normal mode" & you have to do the work without feeling that warmth of mental motivation. With that said, I still love listening to motivational stuff because I do like the NOS boost of emotion that comes with it. This is one of my favorite motivational videos:

http://www.wimp.com/noobject/
 
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