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It's called a bender. We all do it sometime or another, for various reasons. You'll get your sh!t together and eventually get over it.
 
Ask her out. If she says no, don't do it again.
It takes two to tango, and if she doesn't feel the same way, well just move on. Don't scare her off...lol.
 
why are you drinking? booze is not going to solve any problems for you, cut that sh!t out before you become an alcholic
 
Alcohol, the cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems." i forgot which wise man that quote should be attributed to.
 
ahhh.. I miss the days of college, finals, and doing an 11 day bender before and during the finals. Did good on my engineering exams too.. really pissed a few Arts and Science friends who spent their time studying their asses off instead of drinking. My liver was strong back in the day...
 
Originally posted by: Ameesh
why are you drinking? booze is not going to solve any problems for you, cut that sh!t out before you become an alcholic
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Very true. Next time you feel like drinking, go do something productive instead. A little self-improvement goes a long way in battling depression.

Also, going crazy with the alcohol will most likely just drive the girl further away.
 
You're on your way down a long and rocky mountain my friend, because I've been there. Don't stress out about this woman that you think is the woman of your dreams. Face it, you've idealized her.. BIG MISTAKE. She's going to do something that doesn't fit in your idealized view of her and you'll be back her posting about it. Accept things how they are. In the grand scheme of things, there are a lot of women to talk to. Don't place her at the center of your universe, instead make yourself the center of hers.

Edit: Also, stop compulsively drinking because it will not solve any of your problems. It will only add another layer of complexity to your situation.
 
depends.. a glass of red every night is fine, even good for ya...

or if you're a college student, then it's normal 😉

otherwise..no 😛
 
I see your problem. You say you've been drinking every night for six days, when you should be drinking in the mornings and afternoons as well. When you become permadrrunk the answer will come to you.
Just got off a bender myself. I actually lost $400 in my own apartment because of teh dunkenness. Fvck I hope I find it.:|
 
Noone else has ever felt that way. You are unique and alone in your angst. There is no person who could possibly comprehend your pain.

Isn't adolescence fun, everybody?
 
Originally posted by: lightweight
You're on your way down a long and rocky mountain my friend, because I've been there. Don't stress out about this woman that you think is the woman of your dreams. Face it, you've idealized her.. BIG MISTAKE. She's going to do something that doesn't fit in your idealized view of her and you'll be back her posting about it. Accept things how they are. In the grand scheme of things, there are a lot of women to talk to. Don't place her at the center of your universe, instead make yourself the center of hers.

Edit: Also, stop compulsively drinking because it will not solve any of your problems. It will only add another layer of complexity to your situation.
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Sounds like good advice, even though it will not be easy. Thanks..
 
6 days? pffft....rookie.

as for advice: a woman can sense when she has so much control over you. most women find that type of power over a man a weakness on his part, and hence unattractive. nut up. live your own life independent of her, and shell come crawling if she cares about you.
 
Originally posted by: shimsham
6 days? pffft....rookie. .
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No, but seriously. Don't drink to fill a void or because you feel bad. That will form dangerous reward associations in your brain.
 
Alcohol *seems* like a good way to self-medicate your depression away, until you wake up alone, feeling like sh1t, hung over, and more depressed.
 
Originally posted by: ggnl
Originally posted by: Ameesh
why are you drinking? booze is not going to solve any problems for you, cut that sh!t out before you become an alcholic
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Very true. Next time you feel like drinking, go do something productive instead. A little self-improvement goes a long way in battling depression.

Also, going crazy with the alcohol will most likely just drive the girl further away.
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Alcohol is a depressant, it's only making things seem worse than they are.
 
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