Cliff notes:
1. apology written to ex-gf back in may.
2. ex-biz partner tries to get frivolous restraining order on me and dig up dirt on ex-gf as evidence.
3. ex-biz partner sends extortion offer which is promptly refused, then calls my ex-gf up.
4. ex-gf keeps her mouth shut.
5. I loose hearing, get restraining order on me for "innappropriate business conduct" due to Tamara lying in court and me not getting to talk.
6. Appeal hearing approaches, receive papers from Steve and Tamara.
7. Ex-GF writes statement that is actually a reply to my apology note in disguise! She also knows it doesn't count as evidence since her parents are lawyers.
8. Tamara and steve get slaughtered in court at appeals hearing. Steve almost looses his bar license.
9. Make amends with ex-GF, am in shock and awe about what a noble and classy gesture she just did.
Lesson for the two bozos: Don't get into our dirt.