GiLtY

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If you want advise, just search for "YAGT" and you'll have your solutions in there.

PS. How can you post a YAGT thread and not expect to be flame in public? Pssh kids :p

--GiLtY
 

anxi80

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Beer and pot are out of the question..
lol, seriously, when i read the 1st paragraph, my mind kept screaming at me "He needs liquid courage!". then i read that last line. so in summary, my suggestion has gone out the window.
 

crumpet19

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So, hang out with your male friend and I'm sure that she'll be tied into the conversation as well. And if you're not interested in her sexually then just treat her as one of the guys. But, obviously be more courteous to her than you would probably be with most of your guy friends.
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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Feb 16, 2003
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Just remember if she asks you a question when the lights go out, to not shout "NO!"

Hehe, j/k, I remembered that from another thread of yours.

Anyway, just think of her as another of your 'guy' friends and keep it cool. Don't treat her any differently, except in bed. ;)

Seriously, yeah, don't think of her as a "female" but just as a friend. And when she talks, give the same answer you would to the male friend you are taking along.

Oh yeah, since its the ritual here at ATOT, :camera:? Specifically of this girl and maybe your GF, hehe
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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Feb 16, 2003
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Originally posted by: Nitemare
3some or invite the gf too...the more the merrier :D

Yeah, if you stutter, just tell her you're really smooth in bed with two girls and you don't slip a lot.
 

WinkOsmosis

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Sounds like you are just nervous because you haven't seen her for a long time, and are afraid of acting differently in person. Someone I knew called that an "internet gap". Build a bridge or something.
 

neutralizer

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Yeah, yeah, yeah.. I need help.. I get nervous in front of guys too but for some reason I get insanely nervous around members of the opposite sex.. I usually get over it but it takes a while (like I asked my gf out after we hung out many times and spoke on the phone for hours on end).. I probably do need valium! And.. Umm.. Her pic isn't really necessary for the thread... I'm also nervous about the friend she's bringing along- I make terrible first impressions.. Come on, someone here must relate?

Why do you care about the first impression? It's not you care what they think, u already have a gf. And even if the pic is irrelevant... :camera: PICS!