Originally posted by: simms
She gets pissed b/c she wanted to make plans with me, and not her friends. If she had wanted to make plans with her friends, she would've, and not me... that was what she said. Then after some talking she doesn't want to see me either.
So what went wrong? I'm wrong cos I asked once if she wanted to see her friends? Or was I just too considerate? Maybe I should just not talk to her friends again then... if that's what'll make her happy.
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Congratulations, she's definitely a woman. You are wrong because you're a man. Best not to worry about exactly how/why you "wronged her," and just focus on patching it up.
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: simms
She gets pissed b/c she wanted to make plans with me, and not her friends. If she had wanted to make plans with her friends, she would've, and not me... that was what she said. Then after some talking she doesn't want to see me either.
So what went wrong? I'm wrong cos I asked once if she wanted to see her friends? Or was I just too considerate? Maybe I should just not talk to her friends again then... if that's what'll make her happy.
Congratulations, she's definitely a woman. You are wrong because you're a man. Best not to worry about exactly how/why you "wronged her," and just focus on patching it up.
Originally posted by: jndietz
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Congratulations, she's definitely a woman. You are wrong because you're a man. Best not to worry about exactly how/why you "wronged her," and just focus on patching it up.
QFT.
Originally posted by: simms
Yea, well how would I go about doing that? She's pretty pissed as it is - and she's pretty logical. Emotions don't really get the best of her.
So aside from apologizing, ... what else?
Oh, and her friends asked me to go camping with them (with my GF of course). I'm thinking I should just decline because I'm busy - I certainly don't want to make the situation worse between her friends, her, and I.
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: simms
Yea, well how would I go about doing that? She's pretty pissed as it is - and she's pretty logical. Emotions don't really get the best of her.
So aside from apologizing, ... what else?
Oh, and her friends asked me to go camping with them (with my GF of course). I'm thinking I should just decline because I'm busy - I certainly don't want to make the situation worse between her friends, her, and I.
It's hard to say. Apologizing might not even do the trick, because you might apologize in the wrong way or for the wrong thing. But I guess as long as you seem genuine, she might just need time to cool off and hopefully you can get her to explain what you did wrong and how to avoid doing it again.
Originally posted by: hypn0tik
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: simms
Yea, well how would I go about doing that? She's pretty pissed as it is - and she's pretty logical. Emotions don't really get the best of her.
So aside from apologizing, ... what else?
Oh, and her friends asked me to go camping with them (with my GF of course). I'm thinking I should just decline because I'm busy - I certainly don't want to make the situation worse between her friends, her, and I.
It's hard to say. Apologizing might not even do the trick, because you might apologize in the wrong way or for the wrong thing. But I guess as long as you seem genuine, she might just need time to cool off and hopefully you can get her to explain what you did wrong and how to avoid doing it again.
I don't know if you should ask her what the problem is. Women tend to respond with 'What? You don't know?' as if it's the most obvious thing in the world. When you respond with 'No,' they'll say 'Well, how can you be sincere in your apology when you don't even know what's wrong? Talk to me when you figure it out!'
Yep. Been there, done that.