Recent content by doiloveher

winnar!!

100% i hear you :( but at times i honestly do feel like that. this "other" feeling though is what caused my concern, and labelling it as jitters would really make me feel better. this really sucks because normally i would talk to her about something like this and work it out, but since i...

i dont see any advantage in that practice from a religious or non-religious point of view (we are both christian). ive studied it in sociology and seen the effects personally through friends. moving in with someone, but not having a commitment, can lead to problems that may break up an otherwise...

wow...that was like a mini-therapy session

that is some of the reason i decided to ask here what to do. i dont want to waste peoples time and money if it ends up being wrong, but my gut is pulling me both directions while my heart is definitely telling me to do it. she is those things to me, but often times these unexplained and...

i never said i shouldnt be banned for it...but im willing to take that risk in order to get the input from several experienced people here. im not asking for special treatment...just wishful thinking that they will see i am in dire need of advice and maybe let me have this topic open long enough...

but how do i know it is actually doubt? i called it that but it may not be the right word. everything seems perfect so i cant tell if it is just jitters or what. i trust your experience and appreciate the wisdom, but before i return the ring and listen to my gut i need you guys to help me figure...

i addressed that in my first post. i actually said i know it is against the rules, but thanks.

our long term goals do not conflict at all. the things i want and the things she wants are all attainable which is a lot of the reason we have worked so well together for this long. we want kids just not now and that feeling is mutual. we both want to live wherever will be beneficial for both of...

thats the thing...i thought i knew last week that this is exactly what i wanted. i dont lust for more money or more things, and neither does she...all we have ever wanted was to be with each other and that was perfect. i dont understand these feelings. i dont think i am scared to be with her...

there is a lot of helpful advice on these forums. i know exactly what i said. look at the first reply. if people want to be serious here they can be and several people will be very helpful...just waiting for them to chime in. please contribute if you have anything helpful to say.

some background info... i post on these forums under a different name, but just incase she could somehow get wind of this thread, i dont want people to know who i am. i know i am breaking the rules but this is serious and i need advice from a lot of people. what better place to go? we are...