You've taken out a girl on 2 dates...

JonTheBaller

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... and you realize you are no longer interested in her. Do you simply never call her back, or call her and let her know that you are no longer interested? If the latter, what exactly do you say?
 

jdiddy

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Do you plan on being friends with this girl still if not don't call her.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Bueller? Bueller? Bueller?

Common sense?

WTF is wrong with this picture? If you're even contemplating it, be safe and just call her. What's the worst that could happen? She freaks out thinking "oh no, two dates and he's already thinking that we're destined to be together forever. Good thing I don't have to come up with an excuse to dump him now!"
 

Looney

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Originally posted by: jdiddy
Do you plan on being friends with this girl still if not don't call her.

Yes, this is best if you're still in the 6th grade... when she calls you, you can just tell your mom to tell her that you're not interested any longer.
 

RagingBITCH

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Be a man and just tell her straight up you don't see it going anywhere and you wanted to be honest about it. She might get pissed/sad if she likes you, but at least she'll appreciate your honesty and take it for what it's worth. No point in dragging something out. I never understood why people go out for months/years when they both know nothing is going to come of it. It's like they just want to drag their misery on.
 

Amorphus

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Don't just cut it off completely, either. It's still entirely likely that you'll do fine as friends.
 

Cattlegod

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just don't return the calls, much easier that way. she will get the hint after about 2-3 calls.
 

Ilmater

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Originally posted by: johnnytightlips
... and you realize you are no longer interested in her. Do you simply never call her back, or call her and let her know that you are no longer interested? If the latter, what exactly do you say?
I had fun, but I really just don't see this being any more than friends.

Then, when you're friends, you can stop calling her. :D
 

ajpa123

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Originally posted by: Cattlegod
just don't return the calls, much easier that way. she will get the hint after about 2-3 calls.

lol.. in the real world, that's the worst thing you can do.. If it's a decent girl, she's gonna be left wondering if anything happened to you that prevented you from calling.
 

chrissyo4

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I suggest you tell her it's not working out.
Even though it may be easier to not call her back or ignore her, it's kinda rude. Just think if you were in her shoes.
 

ggavinmoss

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Don't call back for a few days. Then ask for absurdly kinky sex. Then break up with her during said kinky sex.
 

electricJ

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Just make the call and be honest. Its kinda flakey not to do so. Even as a male, I've been fed up with flakey females that show interest then suddenly seem to drop off the face of the earth after the 2nd date.
 

ajpa123

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Originally posted by: ggavinmoss
Don't call back for a few days. Then ask for absurdly kinky sex. Then break up with her during said kinky sex.

not 'during'... lol
but 'right after.

during would be quite unsatisfying !
 

n7

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Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
Be a man and just tell her straight up you don't see it going anywhere and you wanted to be honest about it. She might get pissed/sad if she likes you, but at least she'll appreciate your honesty and take it for what it's worth. No point in dragging something out. I never understood why people go out for months/years when they both know nothing is going to come of it. It's like they just want to drag their misery on.



The only good advice in this thread.