you're right... girls are wierd [I think I included pics;)]

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urameatball

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in light of all those can't figure out girls threads...

Last year, I had a crush with one girl in school and asked her out... replied "no" (to make it short)

anyway, we're just good friends now and I chill with her quite a bit.
but recently, I've been thinking about what we actually do...
when I drop by her room, she offers me food (I love food)
massage
lets me sleep in her bed
lets me sleep in her bed while she's sleeping in the same bed
changes while in the room (I turn away though).

and everythng is still normal. I don't like her 'that way' anymore so everything is in the 'friends' situation (and lets keep it like that). But sometimes I think it's a little awkward...
especially if one of her friends walk in and see me taking a nap with her...

quite a rare situation, but other than other people thinking it's wierd... I don't think it's that bad.

and No, I'm NOT gay.
 
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Barnaby W. Füi

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sounds like a cool situation, though if i was in the same situation, i would definitely try to go a little farther.

sleep in the same bed? she changes in front of you? massage?

damn
 
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zayened

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i've seen this happen before...
IMO, she WANTS to be friends w/benifits with you, w/out the whole relationship thing. if you guys are really close friends like that, it shouldn't hurt to ask ;)
 
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I have this sort of relationship with quite a number of girls... including a few of my friends girlfriends. I am not gay... They just like to act natrualy around me and they know that I don't care... infact I love it... gives me something to dedicate to ;)
 
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She's teasing you. Had you let her chase you, you'd be dating her now. But you took the challenge out of it, and caved in, letting her know exactly how you feel. Now, she plays on this...when she wants attention to make her feel good, she teases you by sleeping next to you, dressing up in front of you, massages, etc.
 
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women, can't live with em...

throughout my college life, i have dated a ton of different girls, you know what i learned?

1. They are soft.
2. They smell nice.

after all my years with women, thats about it. If anyone has figured out more than that, please let me know. :)
 
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DON'T DO ANYTHING TO SCREW THIS UP!

The best way to get chicks to like you is for them to see that another girl is comfortable with you. Hang out with her friends as much as possible. If you don't hit on them (this is the hard part), then they will see you as "non-threatening" (this is a big plus). Play your cards right and they will be all over you.
 
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<< She's teasing you. Had you let her chase you, you'd be dating her now. But you took the challenge out of it, and caved in, letting her know exactly how you feel. Now, she plays on this...when she wants attention to make her feel good, she teases you by sleeping next to you, dressing up in front of you, massages, etc. >>


ah-ha!
now you've done it.

*kat. <-- figured out that GL is playing hard to get with her....
 
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<< DON'T DO ANYTHING TO SCREW THIS UP!

The best way to get chicks to like you is for them to see that another girl is comfortable with you. Hang out with her friends as much as possible. If you don't hit on them (this is the hard part), then they will see you as "non-threatening" (this is a big plus). Play your cards right and they will be all over you. >>



Absolutely. As pilots have a good wingman to help them...you can use her as a wingwoman. When you want to meet a girl, take her along. It'll work wonders. Of course, you have to make sure she doesn't sabbotage you...that can happen sometimes.
 
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amnesiac

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Over this past year I've made about 3-4 good female friends who do the same thing. I actually find it VERY useful as I can come to them for advice about other girls, plus they have hot friends who I get to hang out with. :D
 
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notfred

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Am I the only one who thinks this is wierd?

(btw, I don't beleive in the whole "freinds with benefits" thing)
 
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<< (btw, I don't beleive in the whole "freinds with benefits" thing) >>



I don't believe either . . . too good to be true!
 
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<< women, can't live with em...

throughout my college life, i have dated a ton of different girls, you know what i learned?

1. They are soft.
2. They smell nice.

after all my years with women, thats about it. If anyone has figured out more than that, please let me know. :) >>


Nope that's all you're ever going to learn about them (and all you need to know) hehe. ;):D

LMFAO at this thread
 
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<<

<< (btw, I don't beleive in the whole "freinds with benefits" thing) >>



I don't believe either . . . too good to be true! >>

 
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urameatball

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she's definately do-able...

but somehow, I don't have any of those feelings about her...

oh well...

here's another story...
her friend walked in once (knew we were just friends) and saw me in the same bed as her...
gave me a wierd look, I went back to sleep.. she left the room :)

kinda fun :D
 
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sounds like fun. bed comfortable? queen king twin full?
 
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