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Well, she came over tonight. She had to go home though (left an hour ago)... But I still had a good time. Not much action, but I enjoyed being around her nonetheless. We didn't have much privacy, but we did end up talking about stuff, and it kinda cleared it up a bit too which is good. We have plans to do stuff in the following weeks.. and the status is still the same, we're not going out and that's clear, and it's still pretty clear she doesn't want a relationship. But it is evident that she does care, and she does appreciate having someone to talk to and just joke around with. Hmmm this is great..
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What are your thoughts regarding no strings attached relationships? Do you go for them? What do you think of them, really?
I'm in a situation where, it seems, that I have no choice but to accept the fact that I have a no-strings-attached, no-emotions-attached relationship with someone. At first the concept seemed unnerving to me, but the more I think of it, the more i'm thinking I like it. Every time I have a relationship I always end up hurt, things end up getting screwed up... and it just doesn't seem like it's worth it. The more relationship rant threads I see, the more I think it's really a better idea not to have all the emotional attachment.
However, the problem is, it might be a little difficult to not get attached. I'm thinking I can probably do it, but not if I get too into it and don't see other girls enough. I'm going to be working full time soon though, so I will be distracted enough I think that it will balance out perfectly.
I really like the idea though... We just have fun, and I don't have to worry about a commitment of any sort, and I don't even have to bother with being thoughtful and crap. Not that being thoughtful and stuff is a bad thing, but it's just one less care in my life. Right now that's kind of a nice thing. The only problem is, I want fun more often than she's over..
Anyway.. I'd like to hear your thoughts on this.
Well, she came over tonight. She had to go home though (left an hour ago)... But I still had a good time. Not much action, but I enjoyed being around her nonetheless. We didn't have much privacy, but we did end up talking about stuff, and it kinda cleared it up a bit too which is good. We have plans to do stuff in the following weeks.. and the status is still the same, we're not going out and that's clear, and it's still pretty clear she doesn't want a relationship. But it is evident that she does care, and she does appreciate having someone to talk to and just joke around with. Hmmm this is great..
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What are your thoughts regarding no strings attached relationships? Do you go for them? What do you think of them, really?
I'm in a situation where, it seems, that I have no choice but to accept the fact that I have a no-strings-attached, no-emotions-attached relationship with someone. At first the concept seemed unnerving to me, but the more I think of it, the more i'm thinking I like it. Every time I have a relationship I always end up hurt, things end up getting screwed up... and it just doesn't seem like it's worth it. The more relationship rant threads I see, the more I think it's really a better idea not to have all the emotional attachment.
However, the problem is, it might be a little difficult to not get attached. I'm thinking I can probably do it, but not if I get too into it and don't see other girls enough. I'm going to be working full time soon though, so I will be distracted enough I think that it will balance out perfectly.
I really like the idea though... We just have fun, and I don't have to worry about a commitment of any sort, and I don't even have to bother with being thoughtful and crap. Not that being thoughtful and stuff is a bad thing, but it's just one less care in my life. Right now that's kind of a nice thing. The only problem is, I want fun more often than she's over..
Anyway.. I'd like to hear your thoughts on this.
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