Your perfect girlfriend...

AreaCode707

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Let's get in a comprehensive lists of traits and behaviors for your ideal girlfriend. Let's take a couple of things for granted so they don't get said over and over again.
One: good looking.
Two: faithful - not a cheater, liar, etc.
Three: whatever traits you describe as perfect are traits that she has naturally, not ones that she pretends to have just to make you like her.

So, describe your perfect girl (or guy) by character/personality traits and actions.
For example, one of the traits of my perfect guy is a good listener who also talks back. Action would be that he makes time just to be with me.

Got it?
 

conjur

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No such thing as perfect...sometimes...perceived faults are actually an attraction.
 

wizard5233

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Gotta be faithful, and nice, and fun

Gotta have blond hair, and blue eyes, and a perfect body

Hopefully, a computer geek like me.
 

ViperMagic

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She'd have to be very smart, intersting, and like to talk alot. And very paitent to put up with my sh!t
 

DonFanucci

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<< No such thing as perfect...sometimes...perceived faults are actually an attraction. >>

I love a girl with a good hump.
 

gopunk

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successful, intelligent, strong opinions (but ones she can logically defend), yet feminine (worries about girl stuff sometimes). low maintenance, likes to hang out, has approximately as much/little free time as me, and about the same waking hours.
 

ImTyping

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<< One: good looking. >>



The best lover, most loving, nicest GF I ever had was so plain nobody would have looked at her twice.

Listen you vain, immature little bitch: Looks don't mean sh!t. A person with a good heart and a good mind is far more important than that bag of skin that holds everything in.
 

gopunk

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Listen you vain, immature little bitch: Looks don't mean sh!t.


whoa whoa whoa, where did all this hostility come from? :Q
 

isekii

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I say the perfect girl-friend would be one that

you are comfortable with.. and someone you can trust 100%

 

Phunktion

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Must have nice hair (that's so important to me it's non-negotiable though most women have lovely hair), [[must be spunky, or be nice with an attitude, sort of a pseudo-challenge if you will :)D)]], open-minded, smart, friendly, attentive, and well.......

EDIT: Who am I kidding.. the first and really the only important one really is liking/loving me for who I really am..
 

AreaCode707

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<<

<< One: good looking. >>



The best lover, most loving, nicest GF I ever had was so plain nobody would have looked at her twice.

Listen you vain, immature little bitch: Looks don't mean sh!t. A person with a good heart and a good mind is far more important than that bag of skin that holds everything in.
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Easy, easy ImTyping. I put that merely so it wouldn't get repeated by everyone who posted. I'm not vain, far from it. My nick is sarcasm towards the people who always have to classify guys/girls as hot or not hot and don't look past that. I have NEVER in my life scouted out guys, I don't participate in my friends' discussions about who's cute and who's not. I love my bf for who he is, not what he looks like. And fortunately he does the same for me, because while I don't think I'm bad looking, I'm no eakers. So lighten up a little, k? :)
 

AdamDuritz99

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<<

<< One: good looking. >>



The best lover, most loving, nicest GF I ever had was so plain nobody would have looked at her twice.

Listen you vain, immature little bitch: Looks don't mean sh!t. A person with a good heart and a good mind is far more important than that bag of skin that holds everything in.
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Ditto! I would never date a girl who looks fine as hell, yet has no heart, liar or mean. I would date any girl with a great attitude and personality. looks help, but mean crap when considering if you would actually be with them.

peace
sean
 

Ameesh

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shes nice, sociable, doesnt pms too bad, usually smiles rather then frowns, smart, likes star trek (hey, you said perfect :)), likes movies, and loves me.
 

SuperSix

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<< Listen you vain, immature little bitch: Looks don't mean sh!t.


whoa whoa whoa, where did all this hostility come from? :Q
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He's generally a sour bitch...

ImTyping: You're supposed to finish ALL the medication...

 

yobarman

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<<

<< One: good looking. >>



The best lover, most loving, nicest GF I ever had was so plain nobody would have looked at her twice.

Listen you vain, immature little bitch: Looks don't mean sh!t. A person with a good heart and a good mind is far more important than that bag of skin that holds everything in.
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SOMEBODYES GOT AN UGLY GIRLFRIEND!
 

Daniel

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<<

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<< One: good looking. >>



The best lover, most loving, nicest GF I ever had was so plain nobody would have looked at her twice.

Listen you vain, immature little bitch: Looks don't mean sh!t. A person with a good heart and a good mind is far more important than that bag of skin that holds everything in.
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Ditto! I would never date a girl who looks fine as hell, yet has no heart, liar or mean. I would date any girl with a great attitude and personality. looks help, but mean crap when considering if you would actually be with them.

peace
sean
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But she said to post what you think your idea of what perfect would be, since you obviously would want someone that is faithful, has a heart, with a great attitude and personality then you would not want them to be attractive as well? Some of you people jump all over things that really aren't needed, I think it is readily accepted theory that if everything else is perfect with the person you would like them to be attractive also, why is that a wrong thought?
 

ImTyping

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<< , I don't participate in my friends' discussions about who's cute and who's not. I love my bf for who he is, not what he looks like. >>



Yeah well, if looks were so unimportant, why did you put them first? Next thing we are gonna hear is that HotChic has LOTS of ugly freinds.

Supersix: I am just tired of people speaking out of both sides of their mouths.

Yobarman: That was a looooong time ago. And we parted friends. My wife may never win a beauty contest, but she loves me. That makes me a very lucky person. I have dated plenty of shallow, stupid, vain, good looking women. And a couple of really smart, nice looking women. But never would I put looks first. I would not even factor them in.

I look for a woman's attitude first. When I met my wife, she was verbally abusing the crap out of a man twice her size, and it was obvious that the guy was VERY afraid of her. Just a couple of weeks ago, we were both in a her car when a guy tapped our rear bumper. I thought I was gonna have to pull her off of the guy.

I like em scrappy...I like the ones that can give it.
 

AreaCode707

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I put it first because it was the first thing I naturally expected many ATOTers to say. Cool it, life goes on.

So guys, as well as traits, what about actions?
 

gopunk

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I would not even factor them in.

that may be, but i think for most people, looks do matter. given two people with equal personalities, i think the better looking one will usually get chosen.
 

gopunk

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So guys, as well as traits, what about actions?

if i had to describe my perfect girlfriend in one word, it would be this:

dorky! :p
 

Geekbabe

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Hmmmm.. I always thought my imperfections were among my more interesting qualities



Guys will like things about you that you'd least expect them to.. aside from basic stuff, there's no formula to it, no pefect girlfriend paint by numbers kit :D

 

Scouzer

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<<

<<

<< One: good looking. >>



The best lover, most loving, nicest GF I ever had was so plain nobody would have looked at her twice.

Listen you vain, immature little bitch: Looks don't mean sh!t. A person with a good heart and a good mind is far more important than that bag of skin that holds everything in.
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SOMEBODYES GOT AN UGLY GIRLFRIEND!
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hahahaha

Well for me, it'd be what Hotchic mentioned plus most importantly TRUST and of no radical (in my perspective) traditions/religons (such as mormons).

Smart, <170lbs, not overtly shy, and social would be great :)

Oh oh and masters in bed definitely lure me!!! :p