"Youll find someone someday" - rant

[Swag1138]

What a load of complete crap. Youll find somone eventually...HAH, you know what that is? Thats what the beautiful people tell their friends because it sounds nicer than "I pity you, you ugly soul," because its more soothing than saying "I know...who would ever want you!" Well, you know what? Im tired of it. I know Im never going to find "the one" well enough without your empty, condescending, pity-phrase. If your really my friend, tell me the truth. Dont pander to your sense of "kindness." Kind is putting cutting off the arm to save the life. Kind is shoving the birds out of their nests so they learn how to fly. Attempting to fill somones mind with false hope? Thats not kind. Thats cruel.


Sorry, Im just angry life right now, felt like getting it out......

 

[WalMart1564]

i work at wal-mart so i see alot of the public

there really is somone for everyone
there will always be somone as desperate as you are or more

lower your standards

 

[Zim Hosein]

Originally posted by: Swag1138
What a load of complete crap. Youll find somone eventually...HAH, you know what that is? Thats what the beautiful people tell their friends because it sounds nicer than "I pity you, you ugly soul," because its more soothing than saying "I know...who would ever want you!" Well, you know what? Im tired of it. I know Im never going to find "the one" well enough without your empty, condescending, pity-phrase. If your really my friend, tell me the truth. Dont pander to your sense of "kindness." Kind is putting cutting off the arm to save the life. Kind is shoving the birds out of their nests so they learn how to fly. Attempting to fill somones mind with false hope? Thats not kind. Thats cruel.

Sorry, Im just angry life right now, felt like getting it out......

Now that you got that out of your system, go to bed and wake up tomorrow w/ a more positive outlook, it might help

 

[Kadarin]

Good rant! I give it about an 8 on the Rant-O-Meter...

 

[TheShiz]

the fact that you are mad shows you believe in the typical bs that our society seems to value. try searching for meaningful qualities in people and then maybe others will search for them in you.

 

[Ns1]

watch fight club again

 

[Pliablemoose]

In order to find someone, you must first find yourself...

Seriously though, I feel your pain, it ran in cycles for me & some friends confirmed my observations, you hook up with someone & then you run across 2-3 more that would make you happy too. But when you don't have anyone, it seems like there's no-one...

Personally, I never had any luck hooking up with women when I was hanging with a group of guys, so I divided up my time between friends & stalking females. I also NEVER had any luck when someone else set me up, they were always fat, ugly or both.

 

[Goosemaster]

Originally posted by: Swag1138
What a load of complete crap. Youll find somone eventually...HAH, you know what that is? Thats what the beautiful people tell their friends because it sounds nicer than "I pity you, you ugly soul," because its more soothing than saying "I know...who would ever want you!" Well, you know what? Im tired of it. I know Im never going to find "the one" well enough without your empty, condescending, pity-phrase. If your really my friend, tell me the truth. Dont pander to your sense of "kindness." Kind is putting cutting off the arm to save the life. Kind is shoving the birds out of their nests so they learn how to fly. Attempting to fill somones mind with false hope? Thats not kind. Thats cruel.


Sorry, Im just angry life right now, felt like getting it out......

So, what..are you admitting you're ugly?

 

[Placer14]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Good rant! I give it about an 8 on the Rant-O-Meter...

Bit high, don't you think?

 

[yellowperil]

"Spoilers? Here's a spoiler...YOU WILL DIE ALONE"

 

[The Dancing Peacock]

it's trite, it sucks, and it's not true for me.

My fault really, I put 0 effort into finding someone, I can't really expect someone to fall into my lap anyway. Though it's a great way to start a relationship

 

[Eli]

I disagree.

I used to think the same thing.. Until I met that "someone".

 

[KC5AV]

It probably sounds cliche', but you have to be happy alone before you can be happy with someone else. I used to spend a LOT of time looking for someone to make me happy, and always ended up screwing up good relationships because I was not happy with the kind of person I was. Once I worked THAT out, it was a lot better. I've now been married for 5 1/2 years (mostly happy), and looking forward to another 50 or so. If it's a matter of physical attraction, you need to realize that not everyone is hung up on finding a '10'. Good looks fade after time; gravity takes hold eventually. Look at the inner qualities of a person. Look inside yourself and see if there is anything there that would be attractive to another person, but first and foremost, you have to realize that being with another person is not meant for everyone. Good luck.

 

[XZeroII]

It's meant as a glimpse of hope. You know, one of those nuggets that you arn't supposed to think deeply about, but just believe in to make yourself feel better. I agree with the Walmart guy, I've seen some people that you would think would NEVER reproduce and lo-and-behold, they manage somehow. There are over 6 billion people on this planet. I'm sure you just arn't looking in the right places.


My own rant: It's kinda like the people who go bar hopping every night and are looking for Ms right. Makes me laugh every time. You can find Ms right at a bar, but the odds are so against you.

 

[glenn1]

You could always consider Catholic priesthood

 

[idNut]

I totally don't understand why the world is so obsessed with getting together. You don't need another person for you to live.

 

[mrCide]

heh, the only time i can really remember being happy is when i was with a girl i loved (or htought i did)... in my whole life. i'll tlel you what, money doesn't buy happiness (getting my 'dream' car soon, dont care that much anymore), hobbies don't keep me happy (like going to sleep with the thought that i'll have someone there for me tomorrow)..

i dunno, maybe i'm just weird.. but the only time im happy is with a chick

 

[polypterus]

I think it's more like "You'll settle for someone someday."

At least for me it probably will be.

dc

 

[Pliablemoose]

Here's a good one, when you're opening up fortune cookies & everyone's reading them aloud, lie about yours:

"You will die old & alone, surrounded by cats."

 

[dirtboy]

Being alone isn't all that bad.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: dougcio
I think it's more like "You'll settle for someone someday."

At least for me it probably will be.

dc

Be sure to remind her of that fact at each and every opportunity,women love being reminded of just how lucky they are that men "settled" for them.

 

[bigredguy]

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Here's a good one, when you're opening up fortune cookies & everyone's reading them aloud, lie about yours:

"You will die old & alone, surrounded by cats IN BED."

In Bed

 

[Pliablemoose]

Originally posted by: bigredguy

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Here's a good one, when you're opening up fortune cookies & everyone's reading them aloud, lie about yours:

"You will die old & alone, surrounded by cats IN BED."

In Bed

The "in bed" thing really works...

 

[datalink7]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: dougcio
I think it's more like "You'll settle for someone someday."

At least for me it probably will be.

dc

Be sure to remind her of that fact at each and every opportunity,women love being reminded of just how lucky they are that men "settled" for them.

Well, he is right in a way. And it could be the same way for her.

We all want "Mr/Mrs. Right" to come along and fall for us. But in the end we have to "settle" for someone else. This is because there is no such thing as Mr/Mrs. Right. We have to "settle" for reality.

Sadly, some people can't seem to grasp this and never forgive their SO for not being this imagined being that doesn't exist. This is the real tragedy

 

[hdeck]

Originally posted by: datalink7

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: dougcio
I think it's more like "You'll settle for someone someday."

At least for me it probably will be.

dc

Be sure to remind her of that fact at each and every opportunity,women love being reminded of just how lucky they are that men "settled" for them.

Well, he is right in a way. And it could be the same way for her.

We all want "Mr/Mrs. Right" to come along and fall for us. But in the end we have to "settle" for someone else. This is because there is no such thing as Mr/Mrs. Right. We have to "settle" for reality.

Sadly, some people can't seem to grasp this and never forgive their SO for not being this imagined being that doesn't exist. This is the real tragedy

i don't see how you can speak for everyone when there are people in this post that have said they have found the right person. being this negative won't get you anything in life. just adds to the wasted space.