Okay so my brother came home from being away at college (I go to community college so I stay at home) and he moves into my room which we share (it's kinda big). Anyways I like listening to Hip-hop sometimes. So i'm playing my hip-hop music SOFTLY for about like seven minutes and
he goes- "You know you're white, right?".
So I reply with, "Does it matter? I'm human. I enjoy all kinds of music." (Mozart, Ozzy, DMX, Jimmy Hendrix, techno, some blues...etc etc) ....
so he goes- "well I don't like listening to people talking about 'kill this and F that' and 'n!gga', etc. If I can't say n!gger to them then it shouldn't even be used."
me- "it's just a term used to describe something like, he's my n!gga... like he's my close friend, etc"
him-"well if i can't say it to them then it shouldn't be used at all"
me- "You can use it, I mean i have a lot of black friends that im very close with we use it on each other sometimes. I hardly use it though because it's just out of respect that you don't use it. We sort of lost the right to use that word morally with the past ...etc. But once you get close to someone as in friends you slowly gain that respect and right back. It's just about respect."
Plus he needs to learn that not all hip-hop / rap is like that. There's so much out there thats good and speads a good word to everyone and everything. It's he's almost saying that heavy death metal is somehow morally good compared to rap or something?
People just need to open their eyes and ears.
Peace.
-Dave
he goes- "You know you're white, right?".
So I reply with, "Does it matter? I'm human. I enjoy all kinds of music." (Mozart, Ozzy, DMX, Jimmy Hendrix, techno, some blues...etc etc) ....
so he goes- "well I don't like listening to people talking about 'kill this and F that' and 'n!gga', etc. If I can't say n!gger to them then it shouldn't even be used."
me- "it's just a term used to describe something like, he's my n!gga... like he's my close friend, etc"
him-"well if i can't say it to them then it shouldn't be used at all"
me- "You can use it, I mean i have a lot of black friends that im very close with we use it on each other sometimes. I hardly use it though because it's just out of respect that you don't use it. We sort of lost the right to use that word morally with the past ...etc. But once you get close to someone as in friends you slowly gain that respect and right back. It's just about respect."
Plus he needs to learn that not all hip-hop / rap is like that. There's so much out there thats good and speads a good word to everyone and everything. It's he's almost saying that heavy death metal is somehow morally good compared to rap or something?
People just need to open their eyes and ears.
Peace.
-Dave