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toant103

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gf break up with you after 4 years. We live in the same apt. Next thing you know it, she brought him home to the apt and cooked for him.
She never even cooked for me in the 4 years we're together.

it's been 2 weeks since the break up. But it seems like an eternity to me.

Can some1 just shoot me please?

We got back together today. All my relatives told me not too, same goes with my friends. But I really need her for my last year in college. But at least I know how she is now.
I know a lot of you will be disappointed. I'm not going to spent all my time with her anymore. GOing to go out with friends and do what college kids do.

As for her, she can still see the guy. I ask her only to see him for school related work and in a public place.
I hope everything will go well.
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we're not together anymore. She kept on changing her mind. She want to be with me and with him. I can't do that. So i'm single again. :(
 

ndee

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Originally posted by: toant103
gf break up with you after 4 years. We live in the same apt. Next thing you know it, she brought him home to the apt and cooked for him.
She never even cooked for me in the 4 years we're together.

it's been 2 weeks since the break up. But it seems like an eternity to me.

God damn, really know how ya feel. Just keep yer head up buddy.
 

XCLAN

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dude....i fell for you....just be glad yer not me....i could write 5 books....and that would only be half my story of bein screwed and abused.
 

Kevin

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Not sure how well this will work, but it should sure piss her off. Find another girl, bring her home and bang her brains out all night.
 

thawolfman

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Originally posted by: toant103
gf break up with you after 4 years. We live in the same apt. Next thing you know it, she brought him home to the apt and cooked for him.
She never even cooked for me in the 4 years we're together.

it's been 2 weeks since the break up. But it seems like an eternity to me.

GAH :(
 

toant103

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Originally posted by: kevin000
Not sure how well this will work, but it should sure piss her off. Find another girl, bring her home and bang her brains out all night.

it's not that easy to find another girl.
 

ElFenix

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you live with her still? wow! thats just awful!
 

LOLyourFace

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gf break up with you after 4 years. We live in the same apt. Next thing you know it, she brought him home to the apt and cooked for him.
She never even cooked for me in the 4 years we're together.

it's been 2 weeks since the break up. But it seems like an eternity to me.

wtf? i'd slap her silly...

damn i miss my gf.. we're doing well and all.. i just miss her a lot now. (i JUST saw her last night)
 

illusion88

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Originally posted by: kevin000
Originally posted by: toant103
it's not that easy to find another girl.

It doesn't have to be meaningful. Just someone 'loose'...

I got to say thats a bit on the fvcked up side. It would work but then any further relation with your ex-girlfriend is void. That is assumeing that you still wanna be friends and all. If not....

all is fair in love and war
 

Adrian Tung

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Get her out of the apartment. Or find another apartment (if it's rented). I know how it feels, and you've got to do something about it (good thing my ex left otherwise I might be in the same situation as you are now).


:)atwl
 

Kevin

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Originally posted by: illusion88
I got to say thats a bit on the fvcked up side. It would work but then any further relation with your ex-girlfriend is void. That is assumeing that you still wanna be friends and all. If not....

all is fair in love and war

Isn't that the point? You live with someone for 4 years then break it off. Two (2) weeks go by and she already brings home some loser. Four (4) years is a long time spent together. To only wait a week or so is extremely insensitive and doesn't warrant the time invested in the relationship.
 

SyahM

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Ouch, i feel for you bro :(
Nevertheless, hang in there and be the big man .. dont give her any satisfaction of hurting you even more by her showing any affection towards her new man.
 

toant103

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Originally posted by: kevin000
Originally posted by: illusion88
I got to say thats a bit on the fvcked up side. It would work but then any further relation with your ex-girlfriend is void. That is assumeing that you still wanna be friends and all. If not....

all is fair in love and war

Isn't that the point? You live with someone for 4 years then break it off. Two (2) weeks go by and she already brings home some loser. Four (4) years is a long time spent together. To only wait a week or so is extremely insensitive and doesn't warrant the time invested in the relationship.


she didn't wait for a week. She was seeing him at the time we were still dating. She just spent time at his apt. Just recently, she brought him home and cooked for him. :(
 

vi edit

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Wow. She's in contention for the frigid bitch award.
 

Kevin

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Originally posted by: toant103
she didn't wait for a week. She was seeing him at the time we were still dating. She just spent time at his apt. Just recently, she brought him home and cooked for him. :(

So she cheated on you - even worse. Be happy that you lost her...
 

bmacd

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Originally posted by: kevin000
Originally posted by: toant103
she didn't wait for a week. She was seeing him at the time we were still dating. She just spent time at his apt. Just recently, she brought him home and cooked for him. :(

So she cheated on you - even worse. Be happy that you lost her...

nothing worse than a cheater IMO. If they cheat once, they'll cheat twice. And that goes for EVERYTHING in life.

-=bmacd=-
 

Originally posted by: jjones
stab her.

Haha, uh...right! Anyway, I know how that is toant103. It's like you DO want to stab her. But seriously, if you can find another girl to bring home, it will make you feel a WHOLE lot better. Either that, or just go out every night with your friends. Anything you can do to take your mind off the subject will make you feel much better. Either way, good luck. It gets better.
 

oLLie

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Dang how insensitive of her to bring him to YOUR (well half-your's) apartment! Did you guys have a messy breakup?
Pretty thoughtless of her to do that...
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: bmacd
Originally posted by: kevin000
Originally posted by: toant103
she didn't wait for a week. She was seeing him at the time we were still dating. She just spent time at his apt. Just recently, she brought him home and cooked for him. :(

So she cheated on you - even worse. Be happy that you lost her...

nothing worse than a cheater IMO. If they cheat once, they'll cheat twice. And that goes for EVERYTHING in life.

-=bmacd=-

Yep.