"You can't pick who you love"

[Blieb]

Think this is true?

I do :\

 

[Yeeny]

so do i, and sometimes, that can be a wonderful thing.....

 

[WinkOsmosis]

There ain't no limit to the amount of trouble women bring
Love is pleasing, love is teasing, love's not an evil thing

 

[Blieb]

Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
There ain't no limit to the amount of trouble women bring
Love is pleasing, love is teasing, love's not an evil thing

Well ... I'm obviously referring to a personal situation ... and it's not that I'm in love with her but she's not with me ...

We both do ... but things just don't seem to work out how we want them to. It's just pretty frustrating ...

 

[Yeeny]

love never works out like we want it to, thats how you know if its the real enduring kind, or just something thats passing by. its when you can make it through all the bad stuff, and still be as strong or stronger in your relationship than ever, that you know its real.

 

[GermyBoy]

I disagree.

 

[WinkOsmosis]

Originally posted by: Blieb

Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
There ain't no limit to the amount of trouble women bring
Love is pleasing, love is teasing, love's not an evil thing

Well ... I'm obviously referring to a personal situation ... and it's not that I'm in love with her but she's not with me ...

We both do ... but things just don't seem to work out how we want them to. It's just pretty frustrating ...

I'm not sure how you came up with all that from a quote from a Bob Dylan song. Maybe you should think about what that means.

 

[Mallow]

I think love picks you.

 

[KingNothing]

I think you can't pick who you're attracted to, but you can choose who you're going to "love".

 

[clamum]

in the end you pick whom you love through many conscious decisions. so maybe it doesn't seem like it at first, but little by little you choose the steps leading up to it.

 

[Gnurb]

Originally posted by: Mallow
I think love picks you.

only in russia

 

[Blieb]

Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis

Originally posted by: Blieb

Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
There ain't no limit to the amount of trouble women bring
Love is pleasing, love is teasing, love's not an evil thing

Well ... I'm obviously referring to a personal situation ... and it's not that I'm in love with her but she's not with me ...

We both do ... but things just don't seem to work out how we want them to. It's just pretty frustrating ...

I'm not sure how you came up with all that from a quote from a Bob Dylan song. Maybe you should think about what that means.

I didn't mean to hit the quote to that ... I was just throwing it out there ...

 

[SaltBoy]

You can pick who you love, but you can't pick who loves you.

 

[xirtam]

We talking about love or infatuation?

"She's-hot" = infatuation != choice

"I-will-spend-the-rest-of-my-life-loving-her-as-myself" = love == choice

 

[Ronstang]

The answer to this question depends upon gender. The reality of the situation is that women pick men, not the other way around. Men might think they are the ones doing the chosing but they are truly dillusional if they think the women is not the one making the choice. Although men might choose not to be with or like all women who choose them when they finally have a relationship they have been "chosen", they did not make the choice. This is a strict rule of the jungle and no matter how it looks, no matter what one believes, the womea always does the choosing.....PERIOD!!!!!!