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[JoeFahey]

As most of you probably know, what makes prom night great is what you do before and after. The before and after part is my dillema. I will obviously go to dinner, or go in the same vehicle to prom with my date. So I will be with her beforehand. After though, I am not sure what I want to do. If I stay with her, I will end up going to a "party" with some of her friends. This "party" will include ~5-10 people. On the other hand, many of my other friends, both boys and girls, are going to one of their houses to have what might be a much better time. I might feel better if I stayed with my prom date, but I'm not sure I would have a good time if I didn't go to my friend's party.

This whole thought came up when she asked me today what I wanted to do after prom. She told me that she was going to the "hangout" with ~5-10 people. She said it was alright if I didn't go, but I think she was saying it to be nice.

What did you guys do before and after your prom? Is it alright to leave your date after and hang out with your other friends?

Thanks!

 

[BigJ]

If you go with your prom date to wherever after the prom, are you going to get laid? That's the only reason I took a date to prom junior year and didn't even bother senior year (50 of us were going to NJ afterwards so there were plenty of opportunities).

If you don't care about getting laid, go to the place you'll have more fun.

 

[40sTheme]

^ Well said.

 

[SVT Cobra]

Ahhh crap I gotta remember to not go near the shore around here for the next few months so I do not run into the god dman prom crowds trying to hump everything that moves and drinking just for the sake of passing out.


Anyways, OP your an ass if you do not stay with your prom date the whole time, and call me a traditionalist, but the best time is the whole part, not before or after. If you are just looking to get laid, or if you do not like the girl, just say so now and let her find someone else more caring.

 

[Matt2]

I'm glad I never have to go to another prom again!

Bottom line: If you wanna get some action and you know you're going to get it, then go to the hangout. If you're not really into this girl or you have doubts about how much she is into you, then ditch her and have fun on YOUR prom night.

I've personally done it both ways and I can tell you that hanging out where you want to be is the way to go. Whether it be with her or your friends, it is ultimately your decision.

 

[JoeFahey]

Originally posted by: Matt2
I'm glad I never have to go to another prom again!

Bottom line: If you wanna get some action and you know you're going to get it, then go to the hangout. If you're not really into this girl or you have doubts about how much she is into you, then ditch her and have fun on YOUR prom night.

I've personally done it both ways and I can tell you that hanging out where you want to be is the way to go. Whether it be with her or your friends, it is ultimately your decision.

Yeah my main issue is that the majority of my friends are going to be at both of these locations. The problem is that these two separate "groups" don't really like each other. In fact, my prom date and one of the girls at the larger party HATE each other. This is why we can't all hang out together. So I am really just torn between two groups.

 

[GuitarDaddy]

Wow I don't know whats more messed up here. The girl telling the OP where she's going after the prom and saying it's OK if he doesn't come, or the OP actually considering it.

I say dump her and find someone else that you can make plans together with.

 

[Agentbolt]

Don't listen to Father Time up there. It doesn't sound like you two are a serious couple yet, so like everyone else said, make a choice. If you go with her, you won't have much fun but maybe you'll get laid. If you go to the other party, you'll definitely have a good time, and maybe you'll get laid. Seems like an easy choice to me.

 

[xanis]

See how prom goes first. If your date is awesome then go hang out with her afterwards. If she's lame, however, feel free to ditch her and go hangout with whoever you'll have more fun with.

 

[Suspicious-Teach8788]

Originally posted by: JoeFahey

Originally posted by: Matt2
I'm glad I never have to go to another prom again!

Bottom line: If you wanna get some action and you know you're going to get it, then go to the hangout. If you're not really into this girl or you have doubts about how much she is into you, then ditch her and have fun on YOUR prom night.

I've personally done it both ways and I can tell you that hanging out where you want to be is the way to go. Whether it be with her or your friends, it is ultimately your decision.

Yeah my main issue is that the majority of my friends are going to be at both of these locations. The problem is that these two separate "groups" don't really like each other. In fact, my prom date and one of the girls at the larger party HATE each other. This is why we can't all hang out together. So I am really just torn between two groups.

Stay with the girl. Unless she doesn't give a crap about you either, then it doesn't matter, but might as well make the night fun for the two of you. It's just one night. You can party it up any other time. Plus, you're obviously gonna be getting more action in college.

 

[JoeFahey]

Originally posted by: GuitarDaddy
Wow I don't know whats more messed up here. The girl telling the OP where she's going after the prom and saying it's OK if he doesn't come, or the OP actually considering it.

I say dump her and find someone else that you can make plans together with.

It's not that I don't want to hang out with her. I really wish that we could just all hang out together. I really wish I could convince her to go with everyone else at the larger party, but it won't happen because I don't think that she gets along with some of the people there.

I hate girl drama. Guys get along fine, and don't have big hostilities towards each other, and get jealous much. Girls on the other hand hold big grudges with other girls, and get jealous really easily. I wish everyone here could just get along.

 

[mitaiwan82]

Try to hit up both parties? Show up to the more fun party fashionably late and be ready to witness some shenanigans.

1) dinner
2) prom
3) attend 1st party w/ date
4) teh secks
5) switch to more fun party
6) ???
7) Profit!

 

[clamum]

If you are interested in this girl for more than sex, go with her to the party she wants to go to. If you're just going as friends or something, do whatever ya want.

 

[vrbaba]

i wonder how many people on AT are still in high school