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[Zysoclaplem]

Do you really miss her? The person?
Or the memory of her? The times you had together.
Do you think it could ever be the same if you got back together?

 

[j00fek]

get drunk, and have some fun

 

[Rumpltzer]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Rumpltzer
Have no shame. Join Match.com

Looks like about $50 for 3 months of access to local women who are online looking for someone. Good luck!


Sample (for those who like small Asians)
(you need to create an account if you want to see her... creating an account is free)

waste of time. myspace.com is free.

I dunno about myspace. I thought it was a gathering space for high school kids and pedophiles.

I have four females friends who use Match (a couple more use eharmony). I figure if you're looking for others who are also looking, you should probably go to a site that caters to that specific goal.

I don't think that $50 for three months is a lot of money.

 

[archiloco]

burn everything associated with her (obviously not her, anything living, or anything that has the public safety and wellbeing in danger) then erase her from your computer/cell/life....never talk to her again and move away if need be. then you can start rebuilding your life. like i say the best thing about breaking up is never talking to your ex again

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: winr
Hi npoe1.

Getting someone else to forget someone is not fair if you using them only for that purpose.

You do not want someone else because you are still emotianally attched to your previous girlfriend.

I have been there and it is never easy for me.

Do you have true Friends you that will listen to you and be there for you??


Best wishes and PM me if you need someone to talk to.:sun:


EDIT:

3 months is not a long time to forget someone, some people take a lot longer.

Time will heal you I promise.....it really will , you have to tell yourself that one day you will be ok.............really.

Richard.

Agreed with winr. Seriously, let time heal it. Don't use another girl just to get over the previous one. It will only cause trouble.

Best thing to do is enjoy singlehood. Seriously. Let time heal the wound, but start hanging out more with your single friends. Pick up some hobbies with your friends that don't remind you of her. Basically, surround yourself with your friends. I tend to jam on my guitar with a couple people or do something sports/athletic related to try not think about situations out of my control. Don't let yourself idle or you will drift into thinking about her. Good luck to you.

 

[LeiZaK]

I'd rather have a bottle in front of me than a frontal lobotomy, but to each his own.

 

[npoe1]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Do you really miss her? The person?
Or the memory of her? The times you had together.
Do you think it could ever be the same if you got back together?

I really miss her, the person and the times we had together she was my best friend before being my girlfriend, she dump me because I was always pressing her to do more, after the college she haven?t got a job, she is not studying or anything else than stay in her parents home, I know that she is not the best that I could get, but I really love her, I think that if we got back it could be the same, but I really want to forget her because she will only slow me down. She was always so sweet and I liked to care her, she was kind of useless in most things, but still she made extremely happy, I know that all this is wrong; I don?t really want to be suffering for this.

 

[meltdown75]

You'll probably never forget her 100% so don't worry about that.

Rebound relationship FTW!

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Rumpltzer

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: Rumpltzer
Have no shame. Join Match.com

Looks like about $50 for 3 months of access to local women who are online looking for someone. Good luck!


Sample (for those who like small Asians)
(you need to create an account if you want to see her... creating an account is free)

waste of time. myspace.com is free.

I dunno about myspace. I thought it was a gathering space for high school kids and pedophiles.

I have four females friends who use Match (a couple more use eharmony). I figure if you're looking for others who are also looking, you should probably go to a site that caters to that specific goal.

I don't think that $50 for three months is a lot of money.

all 100+ of my friends are in there 20's and 30's

There are more people on myspace also. Problem with match is girls aren't going to pay to meet guys. So you end up sending out a ton of emails that never get read or never get responded to because the girl doesnt want to pay.

 

[homercles337]

Originally posted by: npoe1
How do you do to forget your ex-girlfriend if you had her for 6 years?, It has been 3 months and I still can not forget her, actually it hurts more with Christmas coming, I really need to forget her but I don?t want to get another girl to do that, I don?t think is fair.

Does someone have suggestions with this problem?

Copious amounts of liquor.