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[OVERKILL]

Originally posted by: crt1530
So what have we learned?

wow, talk about research :thumbsup:

 

[AbAbber2k]

Originally posted by: Darthvoy

Originally posted by: crt1530
So what have we learned?

wow dude...you have been so fvcking naive. What a fvcking bitch. Just move and never talk to her again. Ever.

Christ... if I'd known that I wouldn't have defended this idiot. How fvcking stupid can you be? So two years ago she admitted to kissing a dude and he just blew it off because she said "that's what everyone does"????!!!!???? :shocked:

If my GF ever admitted she kissed a guy I'd kick her to the curb that minute. No questions. No time for "it didn't mean anything." Bullsh1t. It means something to mean... good-fvcking-bye.

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: OOBradm
She worked with this guy over the summer, they went out after work a few times with their work crew. I never thought anything of it. My first instinct after i heard all of this was to try to work things out. I seriously love the girl. But, it's not worth it and im just going to end up hurting myself more than i am right now. So, time to forget and move on. She said she still Wants to talk and stay close because she sees things for us in the future, but not now. but honestly, after all of this behind my back, I don't think i could ever trust her enough to date her again.

Not to mention she's not interested in being with you anymore anyway...

Move on... learn from the experience..

 

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: OOBradm
I had been dating this girl, whom i will call Shari, for three years now. Were Juniors in college now, she goes to Boston U, I go to Penn State Main. Weve done the long distance thing two years now, and I was comfortable with it and life was pretty good.

Now, im talking to her on AIM this past saturday, just bullsh!tting with her, and we get on the subject of drinking.

She says: "I actually stopped drinking until thanksgiving break at least."
I reply: "Oh, why is that?"
She responds "Well, remember Chris from work? he has a bad alcohol problem and I told him if he stops drinking then i would too"
"Well thats nice of you" I said.

Now, at this point in time, soemthing rubbed me wrong. we kept talking for abuot 5 minutes, when i just randomly blurted out "Is Chris going to be a problem between us when we go back home for break?"

She doesnt say anything for 3 minutes, then says "maybe."
I respond with a "WTF?"
she responds with "Im going to be honest - im going to visit him on the 6th of October"
And the conversation ends on that note.

Now, its about 12:30 in the morning, and im lying down trying to sleep, but i can't because my mind is racing. At about 3 AM, after tossing and turning and letting my mind wander places I was scared of it going, I decided i needed to call her.
So i call her, and at this point in time i was pretty upset so my voice sounded very shaky and sad
she answers "hi"
I say "Hi, shari..... *slight sob*"
she says back "Babe, whats wrong? I love you, Chris. Are you ok?"

Three years of my life gone in one sentence.
I'm never talking to her again.

I call SHENS!

She doesnt recognize the voice of someone she dated for 3 years, or the voice of her lover that she's been banging every other day?!

S H E N S

 

[OOBradm]

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[Darthvoy]

Originally posted by: OOBradm

Originally posted by: OVERKILL

Originally posted by: crt1530
So what have we learned?

wow, talk about research :thumbsup:

Yup. this was the -7th straw. Long history of sh!t like this, and i gave her the benefit of the doubt far too many times already.

Seriously though...my g/f kissing another dude would have been it (the end). No questions asked.

 

[Dacalo]

Originally posted by: crt1530
So what have we learned?

I actually remember reading that thread, but never imagined that was the OP. I am sorry you wasted almost two years, should have ended then. At least you won't be as naive.

 

[her209]

:music: Another one bites the dust... on Electric Avenue :music:

 

[crt1530]

Originally posted by: OOBradm

Originally posted by: OVERKILL

Originally posted by: crt1530
So what have we learned?

wow, talk about research :thumbsup:

Yup. this was the -7th straw. Long history of sh!t like this, and i gave her the benefit of the doubt far too many times already.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. You could have walked away nearly two years ago. The pain you are feeling now is a direct result of your refusal to accept the facts and make a correct decision.

Edit: HA...quoted before the edit.

 

[postmortemIA]

haha pussy OP still wants to be pussy...