Vegitto

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Well, I think most of you've read my thread about this girl I like. Let me sum up what's happening.
-15 years old, high school, kind of family troubles (as noted in previous thread)

Okay, so, lately, all of her girlfriends have been acting strangely around me. They all act like I'm their best friend, and some of them are looking at me. In that fashion. You know what I mean.
So, I thought, what the hell, I should ask her out. I was thinking doing one of the following. Please tell me which one is better.

Taking her to the cinema:
Pros:
-Spending money on her
-Being alone with her for
-Going to the cinema (haven't been in a while)

Cons:
-Cheesiness
-It's kind of weird. The nearest cinema is 65 miles away. How's this sound?: "Hey, you wanna take the train, then take the bus, then wait for 20 minutes for the next bus, then walk for 30 minutes, and go to the cinema?"
-It costs me money, I don't have any (not that I wouldn't be willing to spend it on her, mind you)

Asking her to watch a movie with me at my place:
Pros:
-More intimate, just the two of us
-Wanted to show her Kung Fu movies. She said she liked them, I love them. Another thing we have in common. Cinema's don't play old Kung Fu movies.
-Show her my room (she showed me pictures of hers, after I showed her pics of mine :p)
-Cheap (I don't have any money)

Cons:
-Kind of weird. "Wanna come to my room and watch a movie?"
-Not being really alone, parents, little brother etc.
-I only have one chair :( (We could sit on the bed, though, but that's still kinda weird)

Well, what should I do?
 

DougK62

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Invite her over to your house. You're less likely to touch a boob if you go out.

 

Vegitto

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Originally posted by: DougK62
Invite her over to your house. You're less likely to touch a boob if you go out.

Well, that being said and true, it's not really my main objective :p.
 

DougK62

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Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: DougK62
Invite her over to your house. You're less likely to touch a boob if you go out.

Well, that being said and true, it's not really my main objective :p.

There's no reason to lie on the internet.

 

y2kc

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is there no recreation of any kind closer to where you live?
 

Vegitto

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Originally posted by: DougK62
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: DougK62
Invite her over to your house. You're less likely to touch a boob if you go out.

Well, that being said and true, it's not really my main objective :p.

There's no reason to lie on the internet.

I'm not lying. I wanna do her :p. (Although, that still isn't my main objective :p.)

Originally posted by: y2kc
is there no recreation of any kind closer to where you live?

Unless by recreation you mean play on the thingies that toddlers play on, then no.
 

QurazyQuisp

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Even if she said she likes Kung Fu movies, find something else, trust me. There is nothing romantic about Kung Fu.
 

j00fek

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i think you have made the right decision to have her over, use a chair from the kitchen or somthing i odn think itll matter too much
 

Vegitto

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Originally posted by: QurazyQuisp
Even if she said she likes Kung Fu movies, find something else, trust me. There is nothing romantic about Kung Fu.

No, but we both hate chickflicks and romantic comedies. She's not a girly girl.
 

moshquerade

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awwww, puppy love...

how about go for a bike ride together? ride somewhere and get some ice cream. sit at an outdoor table and talk. :)
 

iroast

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either one will work. the former (day trip) will give you a lot of time to get to know her and vice versa.
 

Vegitto

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Originally posted by: j00fek
i think you have made the right decision to have her over, use a chair from the kitchen or somthing i odn think itll matter too much

Those are made from wood. Oak, to be exact. Or wait, I could offer my comfy chair to her! The perfect gesture :p.

Originally posted by: AMDUALY
Originally posted by: y2kc
is there no recreation of any kind closer to where you live?

He's fat and can't move

Not true.
 

SaltBoy

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I say movies are a no-no on the first date unless you're gonna make fun of them ala MST3K.

C'mon, do something creative or something more interactive - Minigolf, bowling, etc. Heck, on our first date, my wife and I read each other children's stories at a Barnes and Noble. It was super fun!
 

Vegitto

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
awwww, puppy love...

how about go for a bike ride together? ride somewhere and get some ice cream. sit at an outdoor table and talk. :)

The only place here that sells ice cream is either the supermarket or the petting zoo. I pity the fool who takes his girl anyone to the petting zoo.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: moshquerade
awwww, puppy love...

how about go for a bike ride together? ride somewhere and get some ice cream. sit at an outdoor table and talk. :)

The only place here that sells ice cream is either the supermarket or the petting zoo. I pity the fool who takes his girl anyone to the petting zoo.
no way. every town, city, suburb, village has an ice cream stand.

 

DougK62

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: moshquerade
awwww, puppy love...

how about go for a bike ride together? ride somewhere and get some ice cream. sit at an outdoor table and talk. :)

The only place here that sells ice cream is either the supermarket or the petting zoo. I pity the fool who takes his girl anyone to the petting zoo.
no way. every town, city, suburb, village has an ice cream stand.


He's only 15 - probably isn't allowed to cross the street by himself yet.

 

Vegitto

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Originally posted by: iroast
either one will work. the former (day trip) will give you a lot of time to get to know her and vice versa.

Hmm, I might do that. Unfortunately, we both have school, so that'd mean that we'd have to do something like that in a holiday. But I think I should make a move soon. Thanks for the suggestion, though :thumbsup:.

Originally posted by: SaltBoy
I say movies are a no-no on the first date unless you're gonna make fun of them ala MST3K.

C'mon, do something creative or something more interactive - Minigolf, bowling, etc. Heck, on our first date, my wife and I read each other children's stories at a Barnes and Noble. It was super fun!

I'm 15, she's 16. We don't have any children. But bowling sounds like a good idea.
 

y2kc

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Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: DougK62
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: DougK62
Invite her over to your house. You're less likely to touch a boob if you go out.

Well, that being said and true, it's not really my main objective :p.

There's no reason to lie on the internet.

I'm not lying. I wanna do her :p. (Although, that still isn't my main objective :p.)

Originally posted by: y2kc
is there no recreation of any kind closer to where you live?

Unless by recreation you mean play on the thingies that toddlers play on, then no.

that'll do...

before you expend tons of time and cash or before you scare her off by asking her to your room to watch kung fu movies you should keep it simple... take a walk, go to the kiddie swings, talk to her a bit... get to know her a little. she'll dig it.

Then you'll be better able to gauge if she's worth the time and expense of the trip to the movies/dinner and she'll also get the chance to figure out if she wants to spend time with you at all...
 

sunzt

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Take her to a coffee shop and bring a board game. If you know how to talk, then it's a win! You can also go to the mall or the arcade, or shopping, or hell anything.

JUST DON'T TAKE HER TO A CINEMA

They are counter productive. The focus gets turned to the movie rather than each other.

IT DOESN"T MATTER WHERE YOU TAKE A WOMAN OUT.
 

Vegitto

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: moshquerade
awwww, puppy love...

how about go for a bike ride together? ride somewhere and get some ice cream. sit at an outdoor table and talk. :)

The only place here that sells ice cream is either the supermarket or the petting zoo. I pity the fool who takes his girl anyone to the petting zoo.
no way. every town, city, suburb, village has an ice cream stand.

Not here we don't.

Originally posted by: QurazyQuisp
Given your circumstances, I'd say you are doomed.

Try to come up with something original.

I'm not really a creative mind :p.

Originally posted by: DougK62
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: moshquerade
awwww, puppy love...

how about go for a bike ride together? ride somewhere and get some ice cream. sit at an outdoor table and talk. :)

The only place here that sells ice cream is either the supermarket or the petting zoo. I pity the fool who takes his girl anyone to the petting zoo.
no way. every town, city, suburb, village has an ice cream stand.


He's only 15 - probably isn't allowed to cross the street by himself yet.

Last time I went out, it was 100 miles away, and I wasn't back at home before 3:30. No-one complained, either.
 

Vegitto

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Originally posted by: y2kc
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: DougK62
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: DougK62
Invite her over to your house. You're less likely to touch a boob if you go out.

Well, that being said and true, it's not really my main objective :p.

There's no reason to lie on the internet.

I'm not lying. I wanna do her :p. (Although, that still isn't my main objective :p.)

Originally posted by: y2kc
is there no recreation of any kind closer to where you live?

Unless by recreation you mean play on the thingies that toddlers play on, then no.

that'll do...

before you expend tons of time and cash or before you scare her off by asking her to your room to watch kung fu movies you should keep it simple... take a walk, go to the kiddie swings, talk to her a bit... get to know her a little. she'll dig it.

Then you'll be better able to gauge if she's worth the time and expense of the trip to the movies/dinner and she'll also get the chance to figure out if she wants to spend time with you at all...

But isn't that like kind of.. sad? I mean, in my previous thread everyone was saying I should totally take her to the movies... And I personally don't think she'd be scared off if I asked her to go to the movies/watch a movie at my place with me.

Originally posted by: sunzt
Take her to a coffee shop and bring a board game. If you know how to talk, then it's a win! You can also go to the mall or the arcade, or shopping, or hell anything.

JUST DON'T TAKE HER TO A CINEMA

They are counter productive. The focus gets turned to the movie rather than each other.

IT DOESN"T MATTER WHERE YOU TAKE A WOMAN OUT.

Coffeeshop? It's illegal to get a woman under influence and then do things to her (although I like the way you think :p).
 

Playmaker

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Where do you live that has a school, bowling alley, and a fvcking petting zoo, but no ice cream stand or movie theater?