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theprodigalrebel

Lifer
Oct 4, 2004
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Originally posted by: TheNinja
she broke up with you b/c she's looking for someone better. But she wants to keep you around "as a friend" in case she needs a fall back guy to marry and have kids with. Sorry, but it's true.
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MisterJackson

Lifer
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Originally posted by: theprodigalrebel
Originally posted by: TheNinja
she broke up with you b/c she's looking for someone better. But she wants to keep you around "as a friend" in case she needs a fall back guy to marry and have kids with. Sorry, but it's true.
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but if you're aware of this, which I am with many of my ex's, why not use it to your advantage. They're using you, so you might as well use them.
 
AbAbber2k

AbAbber2k

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Mar 1, 2005
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Actually I broke up with her. This was last winter. She remained hopeful and tried to get me back right up until I met my new GF about 3 months ago, and even then it was "Have you had sex with her yet?". WTF? About a week later she started seeing someone new, but sometimes I wonder what she'd say if I said I wanted her back, simply because she seemed so desperate not to let me go. Not that I would do such a thing. There's a number of very good reasons I broke up with her, and I adore my new GF. When I broke up with my ex I was afraid I was making a bad decision, but it's like night and day the difference between how I felt about my ex and how I feel about my new girl. I can't explain it.
 
moshquerade

moshquerade

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Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
She messaged me today about 1hr after midnight chiding me for forgetting her birthday and announcing that she'd call me on mine. :roll:

Didn't remember until I got home last night and I actually felt kind of bad. But after reading her little message I couldn't give a sh1t.

I'm not even sure why I keep in touch with her. Seems like it could end up just being bad news. Ex: She messaged me AGAIN this morning saying she'd be in my hometown in November and implied that she wanted to see me. Fvck that.

/sorta rant-ish post
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so quit her. what are you waiting for?

 
jman19

jman19

Lifer
Nov 3, 2000
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Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
She messaged me today about 1hr after midnight chiding me for forgetting her birthday and announcing that she'd call me on mine. :roll:

Didn't remember until I got home last night and I actually felt kind of bad. But after reading her little message I couldn't give a sh1t.

I'm not even sure why I keep in touch with her. Seems like it could end up just being bad news. Ex: She messaged me AGAIN this morning saying she'd be in my hometown in November and implied that she wanted to see me. Fvck that.

/sorta rant-ish post
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Back in town? That means she doesn't live near you, which means you can tap it once or twice while she's around and not have to deal with too many consequences :D
 
pontifex

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: Cookie
Originally posted by: zebano
I stopped talking to my exs the minute I broke up with them.
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I used to do that too, but when a couple of them died one weekend I felt bad about it and decided in the future I should at least keep in touch (to the decent ones) once in awhile.

Is that weird? wrong?

...but I don't even remember their birthday's much less call them specifically for that reason. Nor do I expect any calls on my birthday.
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wait, a couple of your exes died in the same weekend? uh...so where did you bury their bodies?

thats fvcking weird
 
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MisterJackson

Lifer
Jun 19, 2004
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
She messaged me today about 1hr after midnight chiding me for forgetting her birthday and announcing that she'd call me on mine. :roll:

Didn't remember until I got home last night and I actually felt kind of bad. But after reading her little message I couldn't give a sh1t.

I'm not even sure why I keep in touch with her. Seems like it could end up just being bad news. Ex: She messaged me AGAIN this morning saying she'd be in my hometown in November and implied that she wanted to see me. Fvck that.

/sorta rant-ish post
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so quit her. what are you waiting for?
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I can't quit you...... /Brokeback Mountain
 
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Nutdotnet

Diamond Member
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: Cookie
Originally posted by: zebano
I stopped talking to my exs the minute I broke up with them.
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I used to do that too, but when a couple of them died one weekend I felt bad about it and decided in the future I should at least keep in touch (to the decent ones) once in awhile.

Is that weird? wrong?

...but I don't even remember their birthday's much less call them specifically for that reason. Nor do I expect any calls on my birthday.
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wait, a couple of your exes died in the same weekend? uh...so where did you bury their bodies?

thats fvcking weird
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Yeah, what happened?

I'm pretty close with all my exes...if not, I'm at least "cool" with them. I'm an adult...I understand that relationships end...no need to get juvenile about it. It sometimes hurts...and some of them I'll never get "over" but it's worth it, to me, to keep them in my life.

<--- Usually does the dumping.
 
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CraigRT

Lifer
Jun 16, 2000
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Only acceptable call after hours from a girl should be a booty call.

Either get a piece, or GTFO :p
 
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amicold

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Feb 7, 2005
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Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
She messaged me today about 1hr after midnight chiding me for forgetting her birthday and announcing that she'd call me on mine. :roll:

Didn't remember until I got home last night and I actually felt kind of bad. But after reading her little message I couldn't give a sh1t.

I'm not even sure why I keep in touch with her. Seems like it could end up just being bad news. Ex: She messaged me AGAIN this morning saying she'd be in my hometown in November and implied that she wanted to see me. Fvck that.

/sorta rant-ish post
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Tell her to s on your d, you're not dating anymore, and from the sound of it you don't talk much.
 
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BooGiMaN

Diamond Member
Jul 5, 2001
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seriously what is it with ATOT and not having the ability to deal with people...

this situation is solved as easily as deleteing her message and not giving it a second thought....just like spam

hint-you dont even have to read the message before deleteing it if you dont want...

 
MichaelD

MichaelD

Lifer
Jan 16, 2001
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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Well if she's going to be in your hometown in November, then you have a whole 11 months to prepare. ;)
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Glad I'm not the only one who caught that. ;) I actually read every reply up to this one to see if I'd be reposting or not. :D

Oh yeah, to the OP: Stop being a whiny little shell of a man and forget your past already. Wuss.

It can't have been THAT good. And even if you think it was, remember this:

The best way to get over someone...is to get under someone else.

That'll clear out those nasty little memories right quick.
 
dabuddha

dabuddha

Lifer
Apr 10, 2000
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Originally posted by: Don Rodriguez
Originally posted by: Cookie
Originally posted by: Don Rodriguez
my new gf is yet to become crazy

they all do

within time.
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Maybe it's something YOU are doing that makes them crazy.
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hand over your man card

STAT.
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Why would he hand over his man card for speaking the truth? :)
 
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