YAGT: Yesturday was my Ex-GF's Birthday

AbAbber2k

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She messaged me today about 1hr after midnight chiding me for forgetting her birthday and announcing that she'd call me on mine. :roll:

Didn't remember until I got home last night and I actually felt kind of bad. But after reading her little message I couldn't give a sh1t.

I'm not even sure why I keep in touch with her. Seems like it could end up just being bad news. Ex: She messaged me AGAIN this morning saying she'd be in my hometown in November and implied that she wanted to see me. Fvck that.

/sorta rant-ish post
 

clamum

Lifer
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I stopped talking to one of my exs pretty much last year after I called her in November on her birthday. Mine's in January and she didn't call me, so f it.
 

misle

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You may want to remind her that she is your ex-girlfriend.
 

apac

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Ask her if she's up for a 3 some with your new gf. If she is, get a kinky new girlfriend. If not, then you've easily gotten her off your back.
 

Reckoner

Lifer
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Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
She messaged me today about 1hr after midnight chiding me for forgetting her birthday and announcing that she'd call me on mine. :roll:

Didn't remember until I got home last night and I actually felt kind of bad. But after reading her little message I couldn't give a sh1t.

I'm not even sure why I keep in touch with her. Seems like it could end up just being bad news. Ex: She messaged me AGAIN this morning saying she'd be in my hometown in November and implied that she wanted to see me. Fvck that.

/sorta rant-ish post

You keep in touch with her, because you secretly hope you're going to get back together with her. Time to face reality: It isn't going to happen!
 

Cookie

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Jul 3, 2001
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Originally posted by: zebano
I stopped talking to my exs the minute I broke up with them.

I used to do that too, but when a couple of them died one weekend I felt bad about it and decided in the future I should at least keep in touch (to the decent ones) once in awhile.

Is that weird? wrong?

...but I don't even remember their birthday's much less call them specifically for that reason. Nor do I expect any calls on my birthday.
 
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My ex's birthday is Saturday, I'll call her to wish her happy birthday, but that's just the way we are. We haven't talked much in the past few weeks because I cut off communication. she kept saying she wanted to work things out but then played too many games.

I actually ended up meeting and just started dating a friend of hers that she works with. My ex says she's cool with it, but we'll see. Anyway, I cared enough about my ex at one point to date her, the least I can do is wish her a happy birthday, especially considering I see her once a week or so in my "rounds".

It's different for different people I suppose.
 

Al Neri

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my ex's bday was yesterday, sent her a text message, she was psychotic, but whatever if it makes her happy. if she calls me i don't answer, luckily she hasn't

my new gf is yet to become crazy

they all do

within time.
 

Cookie

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Originally posted by: Don Rodriguez
my new gf is yet to become crazy

they all do

within time.

Maybe it's something YOU are doing that makes them crazy.
 

SmoochyTX

Lifer
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Well if she's going to be in your hometown in November, then you have a whole 11 months to prepare. ;)
 
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The wisdom of Wayne Campbell:


Stacy: Happy anniversary, Wayne.
Wayne Campbell: Stacy, we broke up two months ago.
Stacy: Well, that doesn't mean we can't still go out, does it?
Wayne Campbell: Well, it does actually, that's what breaking up is.
 

TheNinja

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she broke up with you b/c she's looking for someone better. But she wants to keep you around "as a friend" in case she needs a fall back guy to marry and have kids with. Sorry, but it's true.
 

IceBergSLiM

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you should see her when she comes to town....hit it very hard then when you finish walk to the bathroom clean up walk back into the bedroom and with a stern look ask her "why the fvck are you still here? GTFO!". THEN DONT TALK TO HER EVER AGAIN. You should be smiling ear to ear after this.
 

imported_vr6

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Originally posted by: TheNinja
she broke up with you b/c she's looking for someone better. But she wants to keep you around "as a friend" in case she needs a fall back guy to marry and have kids with. Sorry, but it's true.

qft. its like insurance.
 

Garet Jax

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Tell her the minute she starts banging you again is when you will start to remember her birthday.