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YAGT: Would you go out with the Ex of your friend?

ndee

Lifer
Question: I have a friend, he was 8 month together with a girl. That was about a year ago. Now, somehow, we(the ex and me) got to know each other and we're comin' closer. Now my question: Would you still go out with her?
 
depends how good a friend are you with your friend, and what happened to break them up, like girl cheating on him or something

Dogg
 
Originally posted by: Zombie
how good of friends are you with the guy ?

If(friends == good)
your_Answer = NO

I agree. It's against The Rules.

But if he's not such a good friend, and you don't mind the sloppy seconds...
 
If he was a good friend... then NO.

*edit* unless he's cool with it. LOL.

I know I would be pissed off if i find out any of my "good" friends started going out with a ex.
 
Originally posted by: Zombie
how good of friends are you with the guy ?

If(friends == good)
your_Answer = NO

we hang out quite a lot and she hates him cuz he... yeah, he didn't end it too nice with her.
 
yeah, that's not gonna work too well if he and her broke it off bad. i would never go out with any of my friends girlfriends even if i liked them...there are always other chicks out there...why pick your friends ex?
 
Originally posted by: Cooljt1
yeah, that's not gonna work too well if he and her broke it off bad. i would never go out with any of my friends girlfriends even if i liked them...there are always other chicks out there...why pick your friends ex?

true. Hmmmm.... it can get pretty messy huh?
 
Just as an example:

Same situation came up with me and my friend and another girl. They were NOT boyfriend/girlfriend they had just gone on like 5 dates or whatever and ended up sleeping together once or twice. Later on when they were just hanging out he asked her if she wanted to go back to his place. She declined because the last times she slept together she was pretty drunk. Anyways, he introduced her to me once, and then later we went on a double date me my friend, and the ex and her girlfriend. So anyways things kidna ended wtih the two of them. I asked if it would be ok if I called her. He said it was fine. He specifically said that if I were to go out with her everyday he wouldn't care. So we started dating and eventually became really close. I never lied to my friend and I thought everything was cool since he said it was fine. HE even was the one that gave me her number.. Anyways one day he asked me if we had sex and when i said yes worlds collided. It took him a LONG time before he would even speak to me again. He interpreted the situation as me "stealing" this girl from him. Even though the night I asked for her number he said "I'm never ever going to see her again." So you better be careful even though your friend might say it's coo it might not be. Probably a better idea to get your own girl.
 
nick1985: they were together 8 months. 'nuff said 😉

DumbGuy: I know. I don't want any trouble with my friend cuz of a girl. I just called him and he told me that I was lucky that he wasn't around when we(the girl and me) had fun on the park bench. He said it in a fun-tone but still. Not a good start for a relationship anyway. Bros before hoes is definately true. She just called me and asked me why I called it off. Oh well. I did the right thing 🙂
 
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