YAGT: would you get mad if...

rudeguy

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a girl you were seeing put her picture up on one of those rate me sites? Then to top it off she had a bunch of guys in her favorites with quotes like "the things I would do with that tongue!" I just dont think that is something that is right to do...what do you guys think?
 

badluck

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no, i wouldn't be mad....but, i'm not insecure either. you might want to work on that if you are mad.
 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: rudeguy
a girl you were seeing put her picture up on one of those rate me sites? Then to top it off she had a bunch of guys in her favorites with quotes like "the things I would do with that tongue!" I just dont think that is something that is right to do...what do you guys think?
Argh I hope your girlfriend never sees this thread because if she did she should dump your sorry insecure ass and you would deserve it. Mad? At who? You're the one she's with for whatever reason and if you question that like this and get mad at her, that will only indicate to her that you don't trust and are suspicious of her. Grounds for suspicion would be lying or hiding things from you, but she's apparently honest with you about posting her pic. Most likely she did it for fun and meant no harm to you so you shouldn't take it personally if it makes you uncomfortable. Keep in mind neither she nor you can be responsible for the actions of the guys that are attracted to her. What matters is how she feels about you and if that's good then that should give you enough security not to worry about what other guys think of her.

 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: rudeguy
I never said I was mad...I just said that I thought it wasnt right.
You only have "would you get mad..." in your thread title. Heh.

 

rudeguy

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Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: rudeguy
a girl you were seeing put her picture up on one of those rate me sites? Then to top it off she had a bunch of guys in her favorites with quotes like "the things I would do with that tongue!" I just dont think that is something that is right to do...what do you guys think?
Argh I hope your girlfriend never sees this thread because if she did she should dump your sorry insecure ass and you would deserve it. Mad? At who? You're the one she's with for whatever reason and if you question that like this and get mad at her, that will only indicate to her that you don't trust and are suspicious of her. Grounds for suspicion would be lying or hiding things from you, but she's apparently honest with you about posting her pic. Most likely she did it for fun and meant no harm to you so you shouldn't take it personally if it makes you uncomfortable. Keep in mind neither she nor you can be responsible for the actions of the guys that are attracted to her. What matters is how she feels about you and if that's good then that should give you enough security not to worry about what other guys think of her.

thanks for your input, but if you had read my post what upset me was what SHE had put next to the guys names, not what they had said about her.
 

Ryan

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Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: rudeguy a girl you were seeing put her picture up on one of those rate me sites? Then to top it off she had a bunch of guys in her favorites with quotes like "the things I would do with that tongue!" I just dont think that is something that is right to do...what do you guys think?
Argh I hope your girlfriend never sees this thread because if she did she should dump your sorry insecure ass and you would deserve it. Mad? At who? You're the one she's with for whatever reason and if you question that like this and get mad at her, that will only indicate to her that you don't trust and are suspicious of her. Grounds for suspicion would be lying or hiding things from you, but she's apparently honest with you about posting her pic. Most likely she did it for fun and meant no harm to you so you shouldn't take it personally if it makes you uncomfortable. Keep in mind neither she nor you can be responsible for the actions of the guys that are attracted to her. What matters is how she feels about you and if that's good then that should give you enough security not to worry about what other guys think of her.
thanks for your input, but if you had read my post what upset me was what SHE had put next to the guys names, now what they had said about her.

Dude, it's the fvcking internet. What does it matter?!?!!?!!
rolleye.gif
 

rudeguy

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Originally posted by: rbloedow
Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: rudeguy a girl you were seeing put her picture up on one of those rate me sites? Then to top it off she had a bunch of guys in her favorites with quotes like "the things I would do with that tongue!" I just dont think that is something that is right to do...what do you guys think?
Argh I hope your girlfriend never sees this thread because if she did she should dump your sorry insecure ass and you would deserve it. Mad? At who? You're the one she's with for whatever reason and if you question that like this and get mad at her, that will only indicate to her that you don't trust and are suspicious of her. Grounds for suspicion would be lying or hiding things from you, but she's apparently honest with you about posting her pic. Most likely she did it for fun and meant no harm to you so you shouldn't take it personally if it makes you uncomfortable. Keep in mind neither she nor you can be responsible for the actions of the guys that are attracted to her. What matters is how she feels about you and if that's good then that should give you enough security not to worry about what other guys think of her.
thanks for your input, but if you had read my post what upset me was what SHE had put next to the guys names, now what they had said about her.

Dude, it's the fvcking internet. What does it matter?!?!!?!!
rolleye.gif

I'm not sure that it does matter...I was trying to get you guys' opinion is all...its not like I am going to stop talking to her just because of this...Its just not something that I would do, and I wondered if anyone else felt the same way.
 

Mandrill

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Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: FuZioN
this thread is worthless without the pic :p

I dont have her permission to post it, so I wont


She put it up on a public web site. Why would you need her permission to give us a link to something that is already accessable to all?
 

Ryan

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Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: rbloedow
Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: rudeguy a girl you were seeing put her picture up on one of those rate me sites? Then to top it off she had a bunch of guys in her favorites with quotes like "the things I would do with that tongue!" I just dont think that is something that is right to do...what do you guys think?
Argh I hope your girlfriend never sees this thread because if she did she should dump your sorry insecure ass and you would deserve it. Mad? At who? You're the one she's with for whatever reason and if you question that like this and get mad at her, that will only indicate to her that you don't trust and are suspicious of her. Grounds for suspicion would be lying or hiding things from you, but she's apparently honest with you about posting her pic. Most likely she did it for fun and meant no harm to you so you shouldn't take it personally if it makes you uncomfortable. Keep in mind neither she nor you can be responsible for the actions of the guys that are attracted to her. What matters is how she feels about you and if that's good then that should give you enough security not to worry about what other guys think of her.
thanks for your input, but if you had read my post what upset me was what SHE had put next to the guys names, now what they had said about her.
Dude, it's the fvcking internet. What does it matter?!?!!?!!
rolleye.gif
I'm not sure that it does matter...I was trying to get you guys' opinion is all...its not like I am going to stop talking to her just because of this...Its just not something that I would do, and I wondered if anyone else felt the same way.

Stop being so anal.
 

ThaGrandCow

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Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: rudeguy
a girl you were seeing put her picture up on one of those rate me sites? Then to top it off she had a bunch of guys in her favorites with quotes like "the things I would do with that tongue!" I just dont think that is something that is right to do...what do you guys think?
Argh I hope your girlfriend never sees this thread because if she did she should dump your sorry insecure ass and you would deserve it. Mad? At who? You're the one she's with for whatever reason and if you question that like this and get mad at her, that will only indicate to her that you don't trust and are suspicious of her. Grounds for suspicion would be lying or hiding things from you, but she's apparently honest with you about posting her pic. Most likely she did it for fun and meant no harm to you so you shouldn't take it personally if it makes you uncomfortable. Keep in mind neither she nor you can be responsible for the actions of the guys that are attracted to her. What matters is how she feels about you and if that's good then that should give you enough security not to worry about what other guys think of her.

thanks for your input, but if you had read my post what upset me was what SHE had put next to the guys names, not what they had said about her.

Have you ever looked at a pic of a naked woman on the internet? If so, then quit complaining. She's just having some fun.
 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: rudeguy
a girl you were seeing put her picture up on one of those rate me sites? Then to top it off she had a bunch of guys in her favorites with quotes like "the things I would do with that tongue!" I just dont think that is something that is right to do...what do you guys think?
Argh I hope your girlfriend never sees this thread because if she did she should dump your sorry insecure ass and you would deserve it. Mad? At who? You're the one she's with for whatever reason and if you question that like this and get mad at her, that will only indicate to her that you don't trust and are suspicious of her. Grounds for suspicion would be lying or hiding things from you, but she's apparently honest with you about posting her pic. Most likely she did it for fun and meant no harm to you so you shouldn't take it personally if it makes you uncomfortable. Keep in mind neither she nor you can be responsible for the actions of the guys that are attracted to her. What matters is how she feels about you and if that's good then that should give you enough security not to worry about what other guys think of her.
thanks for your input, but if you had read my post what upset me was what SHE had put next to the guys names, not what they had said about her.
OK I didn't exactly know what you meant by "favorites" quotes. Was it like a guy's pic with his tongue sticking out and then she put that comment next to it? I'm not familiar with the rate-me site features I guess.

Anyway I personally wouldn't go so far as being that friendly with other guys (her tongue comment is overly suggestive) because I'm flirty but not that flirty; I prefer to joke around and make fun of guys who are not my b/f. There should be a boundary she should set to show that she's not single. That boundary could vary from girl to girl though. *shrug*
 

Cyberian

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Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow

Have you ever looked at a pic of a naked woman on the internet? If so, then quit complaining. She's just having some fun.
Whoa - there are pictues of nekkid wimmin on teh Intarweb?

 

isekii

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again. is she the girl that you went to the club with, and almost clubbed another guy ?
 

rudeguy

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Originally posted by: isekii
again. is she the girl that you went to the club with, and almost clubbed another guy ?

wrong guy there buddy...that was TGG