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My girlfriend doesn't go to my school (about an hour away), and she is most likely going to be asked by one of her senior friends (she's a sophomore) to prom. They know each other from a club or something after school, and I completely trust her, but I still hate the thought that she's going to be going to prom with another guy. Overreacting?
 
Originally posted by: iamme
why don't you go with her?
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I was just about to ask this, but then i realized the gf is a sophomore.. I dont think she can "bring" someone to the prom.
 
i wouldn't really like it, if it were my GF. of course there's trust, but prom can be a romantic environment and the idea of some dude dancing up against my girl wouldn't be very nice.

does she say she wants to go?
 
I was in the opposite situation. I went with some guy's GF, who was my friend. Worked out fine. They are still together and we are still friends. It's not as scandalous as you think.
 
Since she isn't even old enough to go she should politely say no thanks I have a boyfriend. Then again you guys are too young to be that serious.
 
I bet she wants the other guys prom doodle. Sorry guy, youre screwed.


Before she goes, say you met an old friend that is coming to town who wants you to come wit her to a wedding... etc etc insert lies. If she even gets a tad pissed , ditch that chick
 
Originally posted by: iamme
why don't you go with her?
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It's not her prom. She's being asked by a senior, according to the OP. I've never heard of proms in any other years except junior and senior.

Originally posted by: swtethan
ask her how she would feel if you asked some other girl to the prom
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A more appropriate question would actually be would she mind if an older female friend asked him to her prom and he went.

Reading comprehension is not strong here it seems.
 
if i was younger, went to her school, and find her attractive, i'm going to make sure i get to bang her after the prom. no offense... 😉
 
Originally posted by: SLCentral
My girlfriend doesn't go to my school (about an hour away), and she is most likely going to be asked by one of her senior friends (she's a sophomore) to prom. They know each other from a club or something after school, and I completely trust her, but I still hate the thought that she's going to be going to prom with another guy. Overreacting?
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what I have put in bold text gives me indications that your "GF" is most likely banging this senior 🙂
 
I was the trusting boyfriend when I was in HS. I could not go to my gf's senior prom because it was the same night as the music dept. spring concert - the flipside to getting an easy A in band/jazz band/concert choir is an easy F if you don't show up for the concert which is considered the final exam.

It was her senior prom, so I couldn't imagine her not going.

So she went with this other guy "he's not interested in me." Well he was interested enough to keep trying to hook up with her all night :roll: The dude even hat the gaul to look me in the eye and act like he didn't try anything when I met up with her group afterwards.

Anyway, it's just high school, so it means eff all in the windup, but when you are in that context, it's a big deal and I can't imagine why she would want to go with another guy to his prom.
 
Thanks for everyones responses, pretty much what I was thinking all along. She wants to go, and I know (we've been together for two years) that nothing would happen that would jeopardize our relationship, but she's convinced there's nothing wrong with her going.
 
Originally posted by: SLCentral
Thanks for everyones responses, pretty much what I was thinking all along. She wants to go, and I know (we've been together for two years) that nothing would happen that would jeopardize our relationship, but she's convinced there's nothing wrong with her going.
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There's nothing "wrong" per se. But stuff could "Go wrong". Like someone else said above, it's just highschool, and though it seems like the most important thing in the world it's not in the grand scheme of things.

Just tell her your concerns, if she's reasonable she'll understand and reassure you there's nothing to worry about. Either way it's her choice, so all you can control is how jealous you get or don't get.
 
Originally posted by: SLCentral
Thanks for everyones responses, pretty much what I was thinking all along. She wants to go, and I know (we've been together for two years) that nothing would happen that would jeopardize our relationship, but she's convinced there's nothing wrong with her going.
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LOL. That's the problem. That she thinks her behavior is OK.

It's not even her prom.

 
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