YAGT: Wondering if it would be wise to go for this girl...

[Ultima]

Here's the situation: This girl I know went out with a friend of mine for 5 months. I thought she was cute and sweet and wouldn't have minded going out with her but my friend already got her. Now, they broke up on less than good terms. This girl then went for a friend of mine who recently moved down here and shares an apartment with a third friend of mine and his GF. His GF and this girl were good friends so she went over there a lot, and ended up going out with that friend of mine. He and the guy the girl dated before were pretty much enemies, so I'm wondering if that was just her way of getting back at him.

Now, my friend who's going out with her now doesn't really like her physically or mentally, but I think he just went along with it anyway for the sex. He's going to dump her, and I was thinking of maybe going for her but now I'm not so sure. That's two of my friends now who went out with her and dumped her on less than good terms (my friend calls her a possesive psycho and sucks in bed - lol), but she really does seem like a nice girl - maybe a bit emotional, but nice - whenever I see her. Maybe I haven't seen her dark side. I'll be honest, I'm not getting any so even if she is a psycho it might be good for the first couple weeks! lol. Hmm.. what would you guys do?

 

[MacGaven]

Tap the keg. Tap the ass. Sleep.

 

[ElFenix]

 

[MacGaven]

This is the classic:

One girls gets passed around in the group and everybody dates everybody else in the group. You get sloppy-seconds and no one dates outside of the group.

 

[guapo337]

Originally posted by: MacGaven
This is the classic:

One girls gets passed around in the group and everybody dates everybody else in the group. You got sloppy-seconds and noone dates outside of the group.

 

[amnesiac]

Sounds like she sure has her head on straight, her priorities in order, and gobs of self respect.




BTW, today is Opposite Day, FYI.

*edit*

Get real. She's passed around your group like a cheap whore, has been DUMPED by two of your friends for whatever reason, and you still want to give it a try?

Tag it, stamp it, send it back, if you want. If you're even half-serious about starting a relationship with her then you're either hopeless, stupid, desperate, a glutton for punishment, or all of the above.

 

[Eli]

Shrug.

Go for it, unless you have something to lose.

 

[KMHPaladin]

You mean like self respect?

 

[amnesiac]

BTW, a conclusive judgment cannot be made unless you supply :camera:'s

 

[MacGaven]

Originally posted by: guapo337

Originally posted by: MacGaven
This is the classic:

One girls gets passed around in the group and everybody dates everybody else in the group. You got sloppy-seconds and noone dates outside of the group.

Why do people do this? Why do women do this?

Familiarity. Security.

Everybody knows each other in the group and so they can be more comfortable in the thought that they already accepted.

Women will always win as the man will always be a friend after they break-up or risk losing all of his other friends. No repercussions and very little unknowns.

 

[Kevin]

Wondering if it would be wise to go for this girl...

No

 

[bbkat]

Originally posted by: MacGaven
This is the classic:

One girls gets passed around in the group and everybody dates everybody else in the group. You get sloppy-seconds and no one dates outside of the group.

"It ain't no fun if the homies can't have none"

BTW, Ultima, drop the "...she really does seem like a nice girl" CRAP!!! Hit it and move on, or just move on. The girl has bad relationship material written all over her.

 

[Ultima]

Originally posted by: amnesiac
BTW, a conclusive judgment cannot be made unless you supply :camera:'s

well you'll just have to use your imagination cause there are none

 

[MrDudeMan]

agreed with the hit and and move on...wam bam thank you ma'am!

 

[Ultima]

Originally posted by: bbkat

Originally posted by: MacGaven
This is the classic:

One girls gets passed around in the group and everybody dates everybody else in the group. You get sloppy-seconds and no one dates outside of the group.

"It ain't no fun if the homies can't have none"

BTW, Ultima, drop the "...she really does seem like a nice girl" CRAP!!! Hit it and move on, or just move on. The girl has bad relationship material written all over her.

Yeah you guys are right. Thanks for replying.
Although....
"Tag it, stamp it, send it back, if you want."
sounds like a plan

 

[Aquaman]

Originally posted by: ElFenix

 

[Cfour]

Originally posted by: MacGaven
This is the classic:

One girls gets passed around in the group and everybody dates everybody else in the group. You get sloppy-seconds and no one dates outside of the group.

 

[bbkat]

Originally posted by: MacGaven
This is the classic:

One girls gets passed around in the group and everybody dates everybody else in the group. You get sloppy-seconds and no one dates outside of the group.

Thought that only happened in families in the South...

 

[cmv]

Originally posted by: amnesiac
BTW, a conclusive judgment cannot be made unless you supply :camera:'s

word

 

[Ultima]

Originally posted by: cmv

Originally posted by: amnesiac
BTW, a conclusive judgment cannot be made unless you supply :camera:'s

word

I had a good one, but it somehow dissapeared from my roll of film.. maybe I double exposed it or something. meh...

 

[Lore]

Also, how do you plan on spending time with your friends with her around? You guys wouldn't be able to all hang out together at all!

 

[RgrPark]

it's been a while and still no PIX???

 

[Ultima]

Originally posted by: RgrPark
it's been a while and still no PIX???

sorry

 

[Ultima]

Originally posted by: Lore
Also, how do you plan on spending time with your friends with her around? You guys wouldn't be able to all hang out together at all!

I don't think I would ever hang out with both at the same time.. don't really think it matters who it is.. unless we're married or something there's no reason

 

[Koing]

tap that ass and double wrap it fo sure! also pull out for added secruity......