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Cuda1447

Cuda1447

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If you were dating a girl for a couple of years in a pretty serious relationship would you have a problem with your girlfriend moving in with a guy that she works with?
























Now does it change it any if the guy is gay?



 
If it's been a few years and pretty serious, I would hope that she considered moving in with me first 😛
 
Originally posted by: Vinny N
If it's been a few years and pretty serious, I would hope that she considered moving in with me first 😛
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She would. Problem is Im saving up for a house, rather then just getting an apartment, so Im not quite ready to move out from home yet.
 
Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Originally posted by: Vinny N
If it's been a few years and pretty serious, I would hope that she considered moving in with me first 😛
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She would. Problem is Im saving up for a house, rather then just getting an apartment, so Im not quite ready to move out from home yet.
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Ah well, you'll just have to run with it then. You've trusted her all this time. It shouldn't be too diffferent now. Where is living now pre-move? At home or with some girlfriends?
 
Meh. At least there would be somebody to clean up after my G/f and I thrashed the place making funky wild monkey love.
 
It totally depends on the relationship between your girl and this guy.

I was "that guy" a few years ago after I graduated from college. I needed a place to live quickly, one of my female coworkers/bar buddies desperately needed a roommate, so I moved in. She had a serious boyfriend that I knew pretty well.

It worked out fine for several reasons. First, they had a good relationship and trusted each other. Second, they both knew me, and I'm not the type of guy who has anything to do with cheating. Third, I worked first shift, she worked third, he didn't work, so there was no opportunity. Forth, this guy was 6'6", 350lbs, mostly muscle, I'm 5'8" 220lbs, similar build but he could have crushed me like a bug. 🙂

Not to mention that my girlfriend would have killed me...
 
Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Originally posted by: Vinny N
If it's been a few years and pretty serious, I would hope that she considered moving in with me first 😛
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She would. Problem is Im saving up for a house, rather then just getting an apartment, so Im not quite ready to move out from home yet.
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wtf? it's your own freaking fault then....quit your whining and suck it up. In this case you have no reason to be mad

It's your own fault she's moving in with some guy. She's most likely boning some other guy.
 
Originally posted by: Dragoon42
Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Originally posted by: Vinny N
If it's been a few years and pretty serious, I would hope that she considered moving in with me first 😛
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She would. Problem is Im saving up for a house, rather then just getting an apartment, so Im not quite ready to move out from home yet.
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wtf? it's your own freaking fault then....quit your whining and suck it up. In this case you have no reason to be mad

It's your own fault she's moving in with some guy. She's most likely boning some other guy.
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Wow, I normally would just let the "she's getting some on the side" comments slide cause they are just ignorant talk, but you're just being straight up stupid.

My fault for what? Am I whining? It was a simple question? In fact, I don't think I even ever said I had a problem with it. You infer FAAAAAAAAR TO MUCH.



Conjur: Talk of marriage has been around. I actually want to propose to her. Her's the situation. Im 21, she's 20. We are both quite young. I don't want to rush into marriage. Also, I don't want to propose to her if I cant' do it right (Afford wedding/house/honeymoon etc).

We both live at home right now while attending college.


I am making plans to move out within the next 6-9 months hopefully (and hoping to afford a house) I just know she has been wanting to get out of her house for awhile now. She asked me if it bothered me, I honestly told her it did a little bit. I know she won't move in with another guy if she thinks Im bothered by it, even though I told her she could do what she wants. We have a very good relationship and I am very trusting of her, however Im a jealous person by nature. My last two girlfriends both ended with them cheating on me. So you can understand why I'd be a hesitant to bothered by it to begin with?
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
Cuda,

Hate to tell you man, but this reaks of 3rd time is a charm.
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Third time is a charm as in : She's gonna cheat like the other two, or I got one right this time?
 
please. if you've been dating the girl for a while, i should hope you'd be secure with her. if she wanted to cheat on you, she could do it at any time.

in any case, i think living with someone that you're having relations with is something even a girl would think twice about doing.

have confidence in your gfs people
 
Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Originally posted by: spidey07
Cuda,

Hate to tell you man, but this reaks of 3rd time is a charm.
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Third time is a charm as in : She's gonna cheat like the other two, or I got one right this time?
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As in she is already cheating on you and just seeing what she can get away with.

And you're permitting it.
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Originally posted by: spidey07
Cuda,

Hate to tell you man, but this reaks of 3rd time is a charm.
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Third time is a charm as in : She's gonna cheat like the other two, or I got one right this time?
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As in she is already cheating on you and just seeing what she can get away with.

And you're permitting it.
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Thanks for your opinion, but I can say with 99.99999% certainty thats not the case.
 
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