YAGT: why is it i like the suicidal girls?

[thirtythree]

Originally posted by: Walleye
any suggestions on what i should do?


or stick with suicidal girls

Stick with them if you really care about them but if you just like them because they're suicidal and you think you can help them .. that's a different story. You're not gonna end up doing any good anyway.

 

[Walleye]

Originally posted by: pillage2001
Run while you can. Turn gay

nah, i'll take the trials of suicidal girls to being gay, thank you very much.

 

[Walleye]

Originally posted by: Deslocke

Originally posted by: Walleye
any suggestions on what i should do?


or stick with suicidal girls

Stick with them if you really care about them but if you just like them because they're suicidal and you think you can help them .. that's a different story. You're not gonna end up doing any good anyway.

i liked her before i knew she was suicidal. really it has no effect on my liking her. she has good self esteem now, i just think it's strange that girls i've liked have attempted suicide.

 

[pillage2001]

So you're the one that's gonna go half the globe to aussie land just for a girl?? LOL, you do know that you're in for the big one if things don't go well after that right??

 

[theNEOone]

Originally posted by: fanerman91
You feel like you can help them. And by helping them, they can be loyal to you. So you can need them by you liking them.... and they can need you by you helping them.

there is some truth to that. i would also like to add the following:


suicidal people are usually weak and in a fragile state. you find it difficult to approach "normal" girls because you are insecure about yourself. instead you try to date "suicidal" chicks, who in their weak and fragile state are more involved in their own problems and will most likely overlook your own shortcomings. it might also be the case that will they acknowledge your shortcomings, but they may seem insignificant relative to the problems that the girl is facing. in effect you go for the "damsel in distress" because she's easier to impress/help/comfort than your average girl.

focus on your own self image, and you might be able to aim for "higher standards." although it's good to befriend and assist those in need of help, it's definitely not healthy for someone to be attracted to suicidal partners. it's especially unhealthy when you yourself are able to establish such a trend.

 

[stormbv]

Originally posted by: Deslocke

Originally posted by: Walleye
any suggestions on what i should do?


or stick with suicidal girls

Stick with them if you really care about them but if you just like them because they're suicidal and you think you can help them .. that's a different story. You're not gonna end up doing any good anyway.

You could talk to a counselor too. Even sane people can benefit from gaining deeper insight into their actions and feelings.

 

[Walleye]

Originally posted by: pillage2001
So you're the one that's gonna go half the globe to aussie land just for a girl?? LOL, you do know that you're in for the big one if things don't go well after that right??

in for the big what?

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: pillage2001
So you're the one that's gonna go half the globe to aussie land just for a girl?? LOL, you do know that you're in for the big one if things don't go well after that right??

in for the big what?

p00p.

- M4H

 

[pillage2001]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: pillage2001
So you're the one that's gonna go half the globe to aussie land just for a girl?? LOL, you do know that you're in for the big one if things don't go well after that right??

in for the big what?

p00p.

- M4H

What he said.

If you're serious with this girl. I would say go for it but be prepared to go face to face with all her mood swings and insecurities. She might not show it now but she will in time. Just be prepared. I've seen more than enough. Why was she suicidal?? Was it because of a relation ship gone bad??

 

[Walleye]

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: fanerman91
You feel like you can help them. And by helping them, they can be loyal to you. So you can need them by you liking them.... and they can need you by you helping them.

there is some truth to that. i would also like to add the following:


suicidal people are usually weak and in a fragile state. you find it difficult to approach "normal" girls because you are insecure about yourself. instead you try to date "suicidal" chicks, who in their weak and fragile state are more involved in their own problems and will most likely overlook your own shortcomings. it might also be the case that will they acknowledge your shortcomings, but they may seem insignificant relative to the problems that the girl is facing. in effect you go for the "damsel in distress" because she's easier to impress/help/comfort than your average girl.

focus on your own self image, and you might be able to aim for "higher standards." although it's good to befriend and assist those in need of help, it's definitely not healthy for someone to be attracted to suicidal partners. it's especially unhealthy when you yourself are able to establish such a trend.

like i said, i liked her a lot before i knew these things about her. indeed, my first "International booty call" thread was made before i knew these things about her.

 

[theNEOone]

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: fanerman91
You feel like you can help them. And by helping them, they can be loyal to you. So you can need them by you liking them.... and they can need you by you helping them.

there is some truth to that. i would also like to add the following:


suicidal people are usually weak and in a fragile state. you find it difficult to approach "normal" girls because you are insecure about yourself. instead you try to date "suicidal" chicks, who in their weak and fragile state are more involved in their own problems and will most likely overlook your own shortcomings. it might also be the case that will they acknowledge your shortcomings, but they may seem insignificant relative to the problems that the girl is facing. in effect you go for the "damsel in distress" because she's easier to impress/help/comfort than your average girl.

focus on your own self image, and you might be able to aim for "higher standards." although it's good to befriend and assist those in need of help, it's definitely not healthy for someone to be attracted to suicidal partners. it's especially unhealthy when you yourself are able to establish such a trend.

like i said, i liked her a lot before i knew these things about her. indeed, my first "International booty call" thread was made before i knew these things about her.

that's besides the point though. people that are suicidal don't become that way over night. there is a general personality and trend that is typical of depression and suicidal tendencies that build up months and years before an attempt is actually made on one's life. for reasons i stated earlier, you find yourself leaning towards traits that are typical of depressed and suicidal individuals.

 

[pillage2001]

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: fanerman91
You feel like you can help them. And by helping them, they can be loyal to you. So you can need them by you liking them.... and they can need you by you helping them.

there is some truth to that. i would also like to add the following:


suicidal people are usually weak and in a fragile state. you find it difficult to approach "normal" girls because you are insecure about yourself. instead you try to date "suicidal" chicks, who in their weak and fragile state are more involved in their own problems and will most likely overlook your own shortcomings. it might also be the case that will they acknowledge your shortcomings, but they may seem insignificant relative to the problems that the girl is facing. in effect you go for the "damsel in distress" because she's easier to impress/help/comfort than your average girl.

focus on your own self image, and you might be able to aim for "higher standards." although it's good to befriend and assist those in need of help, it's definitely not healthy for someone to be attracted to suicidal partners. it's especially unhealthy when you yourself are able to establish such a trend.

like i said, i liked her a lot before i knew these things about her. indeed, my first "International booty call" thread was made before i knew these things about her.

that's besides the point though. people that are suicidal don't become that way over night. there is a general personality and trend that is typical of depression and suicidal tendencies that build up months and years before an attempt is actually made on one's life. for reasons i stated earlier, you find yourself leaning towards traits that are typical of depressed and suicidal individuals.

It all depends. Some do it because they really think that there's no point living while others do it because they want the attention.

 

[theNEOone]

Originally posted by: pillage2001

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: fanerman91
You feel like you can help them. And by helping them, they can be loyal to you. So you can need them by you liking them.... and they can need you by you helping them.

there is some truth to that. i would also like to add the following:


suicidal people are usually weak and in a fragile state. you find it difficult to approach "normal" girls because you are insecure about yourself. instead you try to date "suicidal" chicks, who in their weak and fragile state are more involved in their own problems and will most likely overlook your own shortcomings. it might also be the case that will they acknowledge your shortcomings, but they may seem insignificant relative to the problems that the girl is facing. in effect you go for the "damsel in distress" because she's easier to impress/help/comfort than your average girl.

focus on your own self image, and you might be able to aim for "higher standards." although it's good to befriend and assist those in need of help, it's definitely not healthy for someone to be attracted to suicidal partners. it's especially unhealthy when you yourself are able to establish such a trend.

like i said, i liked her a lot before i knew these things about her. indeed, my first "International booty call" thread was made before i knew these things about her.

that's besides the point though. people that are suicidal don't become that way over night. there is a general personality and trend that is typical of depression and suicidal tendencies that build up months and years before an attempt is actually made on one's life. for reasons i stated earlier, you find yourself leaning towards traits that are typical of depressed and suicidal individuals.

It all depends. Some do it because they really think that there's no point living while others do it because they want the attention.

well, i'm not an expert. but suicide is not typical of individuals only searching for attention. usually there are reasons for why that person wants attention that are much more serious than may first seem apparent. it might also be the case that the person might be looking for attention, so that those individuals that are "flagged down" might bring their attention to the problems that this person is facing.

 

[Walleye]

hmm... nah, i still like her too much to not like her anymore cause she was suicidal. i really do like her.

 

[Sid59]

maybe you've been dating all the chicks from Virgin Suicides.

 

[ggavinmoss]

Originally posted by: yoda291
fear of commitment?

hahahahahaha.

-geoff

 

[Walleye]

Originally posted by: Sid59
maybe you've been dating all the chicks from Virgin Suicides.

huh?

 

[Looney]

Originally posted by: Walleye
seriously, most every girl i've been attracted to has attempted suicide at some point in their life... it's wierd...

Only attempted suicides? You're attracted to failures?

 

[eakers]

i thought this was about the website that i can't link to

 

[Walleye]

Originally posted by: Moralpanic

Originally posted by: Walleye
seriously, most every girl i've been attracted to has attempted suicide at some point in their life... it's wierd...

Only attempted suicides? You're attracted to failures?

lol. i thought about that awhile ago, and decided that people who attempt suicide and dont follow through lack committment.




i watched some dude blow his brains out with a shotgun. fun stuff...

 

[amishhonda]

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: datalink7
You have a small penis?

that wasnt called for...





















and no, i dont

prove it!

 

[tweakmm]

I take it they all tried to commit suicide after they met you?
Coincidence?

 

[Walleye]

Originally posted by: tweakmm
I take it they all tried to commit suicide after they met you eh?
Coincidence?

er... no. they told me they have attempted suicide a while into our relationship... they attempted suicide several years before.

 

[amishhonda]

actually, it seems to me that suicidal chicks have major self esteem problems and attempt suicide because 1) they are depressed and really do want to end it (not as likely) or 2) they are depressed and want attention from someone else to take pity on them (more likely). Either way, you should increase your self-esteem and go out with confident chicks who know what they want and ignore you at first because they do that to most guys and then when they meet the "one" that treats them right and takes care of them them, they will open up and you'll have a solid relationship. That was my experience anyway...