YAGT: Why do I get a better response from women when I act like a d!ck?

[Triforceofcourage]

Seems like the trend with me and my friends. The more obnoxious we act the better the result. What's the deal here?

 

[AUMM]

nice guys finish last...

 

[Platypus]

You've discovered the great paradox.

 

[jhayx7]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Seems like the trend with me and my friends. The more obnoxious we act the better the result. What's the deal here?

Easy, women ain't nothin' but hoes and tricks!

 

[Kev]

Because it makes the dumb women think that you don't care about them, then they are intrigued. Why? Because they are dumb.

 

[buck]

They like being dominated.

 

[absolu7]

simple attraction, no one is attracted to nice guys

 

[Canai]

Yeah I recently discovered that... There was this girl in my math class, and basically I got shot down and started not being so friendly, and now she won't leave me alone

Maybe I should be an ass more often heh.

 

[xtknight]

I predict you won't have very strong relationships. Being a dick simply doesn't work in the long run. All you have to do is be yourself and be honest. As soon as you rear your "nice" side after being a dick you'll look like a complete ass.

 

[Skunkwourk]

because nice guys are boring...

 

[Bryophyte]

Are you attracted to the type of women who would allow themselves to be treated disrespectfully?

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Are you attracted to the type of women who would allow themselves to be treated disrespectfully?

ding-ding-ding

we have the correct answer here folks.

 

[Alone]

False sense confidence.

 

[ViviTheMage]

that is weird, anytime I am out with my girlfriend and her friends (mind you they are good looking, more then mediocre if you will) and they are disgusted by those obnoxious little boys. (so they call them), I too am pretty annoyed by obnoxious people.

 

[brandonb]

An old GF of mine used to tell me all the time, that I just need to whack her on the head with a club like tarzan and make her do whatever I wanted her to do.

It's really actually true. The more dominant/forceful you are with them, the more they like it. Shows strength, confidence, etc. Weakness is when you break your will for whatever situation that comes up. If you always fold under HER pressure (be nice to them) then it shows you have no strength and she won't be interested.

All depends on the gal though, but typically, thats the way it works.

 

[marrr]

Originally posted by: AUMM
nice guys finish last...

I been trough that before i even told the girl nice guys finish last and she couldnt look at me. she wanted the guy who treated her like ****** going to her house 10 pm night yelling and swearing for her to come outside so he can wack her in the face.

 

[child of wonder]

Women can be stupid and have no clue what they want.

/thread

 

[JulesMaximus]

You know what they say, just be yourself and you'll have a better chance with women.

 

[iroast]

Nice guys behave themselves, so they don't get noticed. There's also a difference between being confident and being a "richard!". Nice guys just need to walk up to a girl and chat them up, show confidence and don't fold when you she's wrong.

 

[Riverhound777]

Several people have pieces of what is going on, but here is the basic idea. You do not have to be a dick to women for them to be attracted to you, in fact that is a bad idea even though it may work. The reason it works is because you are trigering attraction in them because you are acting differently than every other wuss nice guy.

But another way to trigger this is to just tease them and not drool over them(ignor them a bit), but you dont have to be an ass about it. Just treat them like a snobby little sister. This may look like you are being mean to some, so I guess it really just depends on who you ask whether someone is being a dick or just teasing a women.

You ever notice when a girl your not really interested in wont leave you alone? And the more you ignor her and treat her like you don't really care, the more she wants you? Or a girl you think of as a friend or a sister has a crush on you? Hmm odd huh.

 

[Agentbolt]

Because women are senseless, contrary creatures that systematically sabotage themselves and their relationships.

It's why nice guys are cuddle bitches and asshole outlaw bikers are who gets laid. Just go with it and start being a jerk.

 

[absolu7]

haha well what we have been talking about goes extra true for american girls.
south american, asian are a completely different breed, a smarter one, an easier one

 

[Hyperlite]

i don't have the ability to be a d!ck to women.

coincidently, or perhaps consequently, i don't have a lot of female interaction. Some, though very few, do appreciate genuine, chivalrous guys. This generally makes for a painful existence on my part.

 

[OS]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Are you attracted to the type of women who would allow themselves to be treated disrespectfully?

ding-ding-ding

we have the correct answer here folks.

Better for the guy anyways.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Seems like the trend with me and my friends. The more obnoxious we act the better the result. What's the deal here?

Because when you're not acting like a d!ck, you're acting like a sexless, passive, wuss. At least when you're acting like a d!ck, you're approaching women, not being subservient, and acting as if you're confident with yourself. You're also having fun, and that also attracts women. When you're not being a d!ck, you're just sitting there waiting for some girl to to see the light of goodness radiating from your pores and then ask you out.

If you would integrate the aspects of a d!ck that attracts women into your regular personality, you would be even more successful. Also, you would be able to not only attract the girl, but keep her past the initial attraction. If you make up a personality she'll see through that pretty quickly. If you really are a d!ck all the time, you will not be able to keep your woman.

It's not a paradox, or women being dumb, it's basic attraction.