YAGT: Why do I do this ?

[polm]

Why do I let women get to me so badly ??

I am a miserably hopeless romantic. I always fall...and I fall hard. I have never had a casual relationship in my freakin life ! They are always so gosh damn dramatic !

This is like relationship number 15 for me that has ended with me moping around the fusking house for days . In fact...I will probably freakin mope till I land myslef in another relationship.

Why do I do this ?

Why can't I just have a plain ol' casual relationship like all my friends ?

 

[mygumballs]

pee on her face

 

[freakflag]

You're an emotional cripple who needs validation through a series of meaningless, purile relationships to feel whole?

Just a guess.

EDITJ/K) :beer:

 

[IBuyUFO]

Give her the dirty sanchez or the donkey punch. She'll like that. Just kidding. I'm in the same boat as you.

 

[polm]

Originally posted by: freakflag
You're an emotional cripple who needs validation through a series of meaningless, purile relationships to feel whole?

Just a guess.

so how do I overcome this handicapp (sp?) ??

 

[Zim Hosein]

Originally posted by: polm
Why do I let women get to me so badly ??

I am a miserably hopeless romantic. I always fall...and I fall hard. I have never had a casual relationship in my freakin life ! They are always so gosh damn dramatic !

This is like relationship number 15 for me that has ended with me moping around the fusking house for days . In fact...I will probably freakin mope till I land myslef in another relationship.

Why do I do this ?

Why can't I just have a plain ol' casual relationship like all my friends ?

Basically because you are a "sensitive" person polm

 

[polm]

Basically because you are a "sensitive" person polm

so what one might assume to be a "positive" quality in a person, in truth causes a much more "negative" impact on the bearer ?

 

[polm]

Originally posted by: polm

Basically because you are a "sensitive" person polm

so what one might assume to be a "positive" quality in a person, in truth causes a much more "negative" impact on the bearer ?

obviosuly I need to conquerer this "sensitive" trait .

 

[freakflag]

Originally posted by: polm

Originally posted by: freakflag
You're an emotional cripple who needs validation through a series of meaningless, purile relationships to feel whole?

Just a guess.

so how do I overcome this handicapp (sp?) ??

Just off the top of my head....take control of your relationships. Be in command.

I mean, you're 0 and 15. What have you got to lose by laying down some ground rules so that you don't get crushed everytime some flighty wench decides to date your friend instead?

 

[MartyMcFly3]

Originally posted by: mygumballs
pee on her face

THIEF!

 

[polm]

I mean, you're 0 and 15. What have you got to lose by laying down some ground rules so that you don't get crushed everytime some flighty wench decides to date your friend instead?

here is what typically tends to be the major factor contributing to my inablility to "lay down" these ground rules:

The girls ALWAYS play along. Im never really sure how it starts, but I am never alone in the over exaggeration (sp?) of emotion durring my relationships. But it is almost always THEY who have this awakening to a need to break away and be free once more.

Then I am left with my heart on my sleeve questioning the gambit (sp?) of emotions I have just gone through.

 

[AreaCode707]

there's a difference between being too serious and being too romantic. You get too serious too easily, from what I've seen, while you can be romantic even in the early, less serious stages of a relationship.