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YAGT: Who is she lying to ?

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polm

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Im in love with my ex girlfriend....(Read This Thread for more info)

She is moving back to our home town, and we have been talking a lot more on the phone about it. Our conversations have been pretty much the same as always....we talk about sex, we talk about how we would be together if I weren't going to Israel, and we talk about how our current relationships are NOTHING BUT CASUAL.

Now when I say that my current dating situation is nothing but casual I am being completely, 100% honest.

But I think that my Ex is lying to me about the casual-ness of her current relationship. She tells me today that he has started calling her his Girlfriend...but that she thinks it's kinda scary cuz he doesn't want to be labeled like that with him. Then she tells me all this stuff about him, like he cries to her and sometimes she calls him ghey, etc. Basically she rags on him.

This gives me the impression that their relationship is far from serious.

But today I messed up really bad. One of her ex-girlfirends hi-jacked her AOL account today, and forwarded me a bunch of email where my Ex is talkig all "luvy duvy" to her new man. Like "I have been thinking about you all day" and " I cant wait to be back in your arms tonight"...

I am feeling sick....

Please tell me I am overreacting.

Please tell me that this DOES NOT mean she has been lying to me about her true feelings for this guy.

Please tell me that I still have a chance with this girl.

boy does love hurt.
 
She has feelings for the other guy.

She is no longer your girlfriend. SHould she continue loving you?
 
Originally posted by: Deeko
She has feelings for the other guy.

She is no longer your girlfriend. SHould she continue loving you?
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no...she shouldnt. But she calls me all the time. She likes to have phone sex with me. She likes to talk shiz on this guy to me. And she tells me how she would be with me if I weren't going to Israel.
 
Who is this "ex-girlfriend" of hers that hijacked her AOL account, and why is she forwarding you that email?
 
i feel sorry for you..its actually a good thing you posted here to get advice. Love can blind you sometimes. In my opinion, I think she still likes you, but Im sure she likes the other guy too. Girls love to feel a lot of guys like them. Sounds like shes playing the both of you guys. If I were you, I wouldnt totally diss her b/c you never know. Just stay her friend, but dont expect too much. If you do, you'll get hurt.
 
Originally posted by: roncarter
i feel sorry for you..its actually a good thing you posted here to get advice. Love can blind you sometimes. In my opinion, I think she still likes you, but Im sure she likes the other guy too. Girls love to feel a lot of guys like them. Sounds like shes playing the both of you guys. If I were you, I wouldnt totally diss her b/c you never know. Just stay her friend, but dont expect too much. If you do, you'll get hurt.
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Well put. Just about what I was going to say. Some girls like to just sit on the middle of the fence and see what each side brings them. So to speak.

 
You two are "Ex'es" for a reason. Leave it that way.

In other words, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, LET GO. Find someone worth your time.
 
Originally posted by: polm
Originally posted by: Deeko
She has feelings for the other guy.

She is no longer your girlfriend. SHould she continue loving you?
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no...she shouldnt. But she calls me all the time. She likes to have phone sex with me. She likes to talk shiz on this guy to me. And she tells me how she would be with me if I weren't going to Israel.
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you're her backup.
 
Originally posted by: roncarter
i feel sorry for you..its actually a good thing you posted here to get advice. Love can blind you sometimes. In my opinion, I think she still likes you, but Im sure she likes the other guy too. Girls love to feel a lot of guys like them. Sounds like shes playing the both of you guys. If I were you, I wouldnt totally diss her b/c you never know. Just stay her friend, but dont expect too much. If you do, you'll get hurt.
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I think you are right....but too late, cuz I am already hurt 🙁
 
Originally posted by: XZeroII
*munches on popcorn*

Can't wait to see what happens next episode...
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no next episode...this is it.

As sad as it makes me (and trust me, this really really hurts), I am not going to even call her again. I just need to forget about her.

Man I wish I was going to Israel tomorow.
 
It's just that I have never really been in love before...and now that I am, I can't beleive I won't get a chance to share my feelings with her.
 
Originally posted by: polm
It's just that I have never really been in love before...and now that I am, I can't beleive I won't get a chance to share my feelings with her.
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I would guess that you'll be in love again in the future. That's why there is more than one woman on this planet.
 
Originally posted by: roncarter
i feel sorry for you..its actually a good thing you posted here to get advice. Love can blind you sometimes. In my opinion, I think she still likes you, but Im sure she likes the other guy too. Girls love to feel a lot of guys like them. Sounds like shes playing the both of you guys. If I were you, I wouldnt totally diss her b/c you never know. Just stay her friend, but dont expect too much. If you do, you'll get hurt.
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Because she knows that you will never find out...and girls often play both sides...
 
Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
youre leaving the country. Let it go. I know it hurts, but move on.
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I would stay for her.

I would come back for her.

I would do anything for her. 🙁
 
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