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YAGT: When your Ex "friend" starts talking about other guys

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Basically, you break up and that is established, you stop messing around, etc, etc. You are both in that phase it supposed to be "fair game" to do whatever with whoever.

Are there any guys where you truly don't care at all if the girl starts to talk about guys she likes? Or wants to sleep with, etc? I am thinking it is near universal for guys to not like to hear it EVEN if they have NO interest in getting back with the chick.

It's kinda like you feel like it's your territory just because no one else has stepped on it yet.

Then again, I also guess I just wanted to make sure I moved on first to save my ego and feelings, and now I am beginning to wonder if it will work out that way or not...

Guess it is time to get busy with the mackin'
 
I'm perfectly convinced women like to subtly rub it in our faces. And yes, I hate it more than anything.
 
For me its weird. I can hear about previous guys, but once i have been there and care about her i cant bear to hear about her even dating other guys. I tend to think this is a sign that feelings are still strong.
 
Basically, you break up and that is established, you stop messing around, etc, etc. You are both in that phase it supposed to be "fair game" to do whatever with whoever.
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Since it's obviously over at this point, I wonder why you would even be around her to hear such conversation.
 
Originally posted by: homercles337
For me its weird. I can hear about previous guys, but once i have been there and care about her i cant bear to hear about her even dating other guys. I tend to think this is a sign that feelings are still strong.
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This is correct.
 
To be honest, it has never really bothered me. If she's happy, I'm happy. And if she's not happy, I'm...happy. It's called moving on.

 
These guys are right. Girls know what they are doing when they talk about other guys to you and you are their ex. They are looking for a reaction. There's no reason to continue talking to her
 
Yea, I would prefer my ex's never so much as kiss another guy again and eventually die unhappy and alone.

I'm serious too, haha.
 
sorta was in that situation, then i thought about the girls i'd been with since her, and realized how it'd be unfair to feel that way. so solution? go have some fun.
 
Dude, if you keep thinking about stuff like that, you'll go crazy. That's what drives people into those murder/suicide situations. When you break up, just do it. Stop seeing her and focus on yourself for a while. Figure out why it didn't work, and don't make the same mistake next time. If you're still thinking of the ex, you're living in the past.

It sounds like she's moving on. When you do, you will feel better and be stronger for your next relationship.
 
Originally posted by: Deeko
Yea, I would prefer my ex's never so much as kiss another guy again and eventually die unhappy and alone.

I'm serious too, haha.
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