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YAGT: What's that suppose to mean?

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Majesty

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I hesitated a while about posting this, but I guess it won't hurt asking.

Being who I am, I find it hard to make physical contacts with someone, even with my closest friends (being male or female)! I identified it as being the "fear of rejection" (it has to be it).

A girl, who's on my area for the summer, contacted me over a web dating service. I met her last sunday, the same day we talked on MSN. It was a wonderful day and I really enjoyed it. I don't remember the last time I had so much fun. We were like 7h together, from 3pm to 10pm. So there, at the end of the day, I drop her at her place and before I could act or say anything she asks me "Do you want to kiss?", which we did. Not some kind of shy "good bye kiss", it was a french kiss (she french kissed a french, how convenient).

I met her yesterday from 8pm to midnight. We played some pool and went to a movie. When I dropped her at her place, we said good night to each other and she got out quite fast saying "email me!" Nothing else. Sure, maybe she was tired and it's understandable, but still... Ain't that unusual? Maybe she thinks I am not interested, which is not true. I make her laughs quite a lot, but I never did a physical contact the whole time we were together.

Cliffs:
- I meet a girl and have a wonderful day
- At the end of the day, we french kiss
- Yesterday, we meet a second time and no kiss at the end
 
Doesn't sound like a problem yet. If that continues, however, she's probably waiting for you to make a move. Put it in FTW!
 
Originally posted by: Majesty
I hesitated a while about posting this, but I guess it won't hurt asking.

Being who I am, I find it hard to make physical contacts with someone, even with my closest friends (being male or female)! I identified it as being the "fear of rejection" (it has to be it).

A girl, who's on my area for the summer, contacted me over a web dating service. I met her last sunday, the same day we talked on MSN. It was a wonderful day and I really enjoyed it. I don't remember the last time I had so much fun. We were like 7h together, from 3pm to 10pm. So there, at the end of the day, I drop her at her place and before I could act or say anything she asks me "Do you want to kiss?", which we did. Not some kind of shy "good bye kiss", it was a french kiss (she french kissed a french, how convenient).

I met her yesterday from 8pm to midnight. We played some pool and went to a movie. When I dropped her at her place, we said good night to each other and she got out quite fast saying "email me!" Nothing else. Sure, maybe she was tired and it's understandable, but still... Ain't that unusual? Maybe she thinks I am not interested, which is not true. I make her laughs quite a lot, but I never did a physical contact the whole time we were together.

Cliffs:
- I meet a girl and have a wonderful day
- At the end of the day, we french kiss
- Yesterday, we meet a second time and no kiss at the end
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aaahhh!!! oh my god! why the hell did you do that!? omfg it hurts!
/does the thing peter griffin did where he lays on the ground and inhales and exhales sharply and loudly for 5 minutes.
 
Are you spending money on her? If so, maybe your kissed sucked and she knows you will keep dropping the bills for a good time until she is gone.

Peace
 
Ask her out again. If she agrees, then you haven't blown it, but be sure to be more physical next date.

If she doesn't then something is wrong, and somewhere along the line, you blew it. Chalk it up to experience and move on.

But whatever you do, don't sit around wondering what things meant... that's her job. You should be a man of action. Act as if nothing's wrong, and on the next date, you initiate the kiss like you should have done in the first place.
 
Originally posted by: Majesty
I hesitated a while about posting this, but I guess it won't hurt asking.

Being who I am, I find it hard to make physical contacts with someone, even with my closest friends (being male or female)! I identified it as being the "fear of rejection" (it has to be it).

A girl, who's on my area for the summer, contacted me over a web dating service. I met her last sunday, the same day we talked on MSN. It was a wonderful day and I really enjoyed it. I don't remember the last time I had so much fun. We were like 7h together, from 3pm to 10pm. So there, at the end of the day, I drop her at her place and before I could act or say anything she asks me "Do you want to kiss?", which we did. Not some kind of shy "good bye kiss", it was a french kiss (she french kissed a french, how convenient).

I met her yesterday from 8pm to midnight. We played some pool and went to a movie. When I dropped her at her place, we said good night to each other and she got out quite fast saying "email me!" Nothing else. Sure, maybe she was tired and it's understandable, but still... Ain't that unusual? Maybe she thinks I am not interested, which is not true. I make her laughs quite a lot, but I never did a physical contact the whole time we were together.

Cliffs:
- I meet a girl and have a wonderful day
- At the end of the day, we french kiss
- Yesterday, we meet a second time and no kiss at the end
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I only grow more frustrated by the day after reading these countless YAGT's about some guy without any balls, who's never seen a piece of poon in his life who falls in love with some girl because hthe girl smiled at him.
 
Email her. In the email, ask for a 3rd date to a specific place at a specific time and day. Try a walk in a park followed by ice cream or something women like.

On that 3rd date, kiss her in the middle of the date. Maybe find a park bench, sit for a bit and talk, and lean in and kiss her. Don't ask for a kiss, just dive right in and do it.

If she backs away then, stop dating her. If she doesn't back away, you are set.

Just don't wait for the end of the date for the kiss.
 
Better yet call her instead of emailing her (assuming it won't actually cost you anything to call..)
 
Originally posted by: Majesty
I make her laughs quite a lot, but I never did a physical contact the whole time we were together.
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This is your problem. She probably thinks you are not interested in her. She may also think you are a wimp and be turned off. You need to take EVERY chance you get to touch her. Get over your fear of physical contact.

Since she is just in the area for the summer, she might be just looking for a quick fling, which you are OBVIOUSLY not able to handle.
 
You probably didn't make any moves to hold her hand at the movie or anything like that so she was probably in fear of sitting and waiting in the car like she wanted you to kiss her but she didn't think you would since you didn't make any moves that whole night. You've got her though, man. Just need to hang out again and follow through...
 
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