YAGT: what to do?

[guapo337]

warning: pyonir, this is YAGT. im sorry.

yes, yet ANOTHER girl thread. i hate to plague you guys with these, but bear with me.

me and this girl met a while back, last november, and we were just friends. anyways, things got to the point where we both believed we should be together or whatever, but nothing ever really happened. after looking at this objectively, and trying to look into the future, i've noticed that we really are just good friends. and nothing more. we dont do much physically (see kissing thread), and when we watch movies we actually talk and watch them. we just get into good conversations. so anyways, i've decided that this is the kind of thing where it would work best if we were just really close friends.. as far as i know, she thinks of this as more than just platonic. so what to do? what can i tell her? i know a lot of people just say they want to be friends, but i TRULY want to be really good friends. i would hate to totally lose this girl, because she's really cool. i just dont feel like it's going anywhere, and i dont know if i want it to. ideas? advice?

 

[Cuda1447]

TALK TO HER!

 

[Atrail]

Get a dog.
Best friends evar....

 

[pulse8]

i hate to plague you guys with these

Liar.

 

[guapo337]

oh something else i should clarify.. we never actually became "an item". we've never talked about being together or whatever, it's just kinda assumed..

 

[guapo337]

Originally posted by: pulse8

i hate to plague you guys with these

Liar.

okaaay.. you got me.

anyways, i am going to talk to her. but i have no idea what to say.

 

[pyonir]

where is my warning at the top of your post?

 

[johnjohn320]

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
TALK TO HER!

 

[AstIsis]

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
TALK TO HER!

I second this notion. Women can be reasonable when we feel like it.

 

[melly]

fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

 

[guapo337]

Originally posted by: pyonir
where is my warning at the top of your post?

gah! i forgot it! lemme add that...

 

[guapo337]

Originally posted by: caramel
fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

i dont wanna become a couple..

 

[melly]

Originally posted by: guapo337

Originally posted by: caramel
fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

i dont wanna become a couple..

where is the part you missed on getting some?

 

[TheShiz]

I think you need to read this website, it shall guide you:

ladder theory

 

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: guapo337

Originally posted by: pyonir
where is my warning at the top of your post?

gah! i forgot it! lemme add that...

That's better.

Just tell her you are glad you are friends, and hope to stay that way for a really long time.

Talk with her...

 

[dolph]

Originally posted by: caramel
fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

we need more girls like you

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: caramel
fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

Best. Advice. EvAr. And that's the first time I've heard that from a girl. :Q

I :heart: caramel

- M4H

 

[melly]

Originally posted by: dolph

Originally posted by: caramel
fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

we need more girls like you

but then i'd have to kill them all.

 

[melly]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: caramel
fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

Best. Advice. EvAr. And that's the first time I've heard that from a girl. :Q

I :heart: caramel

- M4H

what can i say, live and learn.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: caramel

Originally posted by: dolph

Originally posted by: caramel
fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

we need more girls like you

but then i'd have to kill them all.

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say "redhead".

- M4H

 

[MithShrike]

Man! You are lucky I wish sh!t like that would happen to me. That sounds about the perfect relationship in my opinion. Anyways, just talk with her and whatnot.

 

[guapo337]

Originally posted by: Mith
Man! You are lucky I wish sh!t like that would happen to me. That sounds about the perfect relationship in my opinion. Anyways, just talk with her and whatnot.

not doing anything is good? it's perfect for a friendship type. im a horny high school kid.

 

[melly]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: caramel

Originally posted by: dolph

Originally posted by: caramel
fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

we need more girls like you

but then i'd have to kill them all.

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say "redhead".

- M4H

i'm actually a brunette but i dyed it burgundy-ish last week. i'm not in a pic-taking mood though. maybe tomorrow.

 

[dolph]

Originally posted by: caramel

Originally posted by: dolph

Originally posted by: caramel
fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

we need more girls like you

but then i'd have to kill them all.

but there isn't enough of you to go around

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: caramel

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: caramel

Originally posted by: dolph

Originally posted by: caramel
fvck her. either two things will happen: you'll become a couple or it will ruin the friendship. in any case one thing is for certain--you'll come back here to make YAGT.

we need more girls like you

but then i'd have to kill them all.

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say "redhead".

- M4H

i'm actually a brunette but i dyed it burgundy-ish last week. i'm not in a pic-taking mood though. maybe tomorrow.

My mistake.

We still need a lot more women like you though.

- M4H