YAGT = What should I and my GF do about her ex-bf who is a total loser? (UDATED) - he is coming today again!

[Qianglong]

I've been with my current gf since July of this year and things are going great. We had the best summer ever and travelled to many places. School has started so our lives are more routine now but still see each other a few times week + phone calls daily.

I am on an internship while she is studying and lives in res. She called me on Sunday and told me that her ex-bf came for a suprise visit. He wanted to meet her so she met her in the library for two hours.

The ex basically tried to beg her to come back to him and be his gf again. Obviously, my gf told him that things are over and you blew all of your chances and that he should forget about her. The guy then cried for one hour to beg her before she got fed up and left. She also told me that the guy started to call her often and wanted to talk to her.

So..what do you think I should do now? She is very annoyed by him too.

Update 1:
Oh, she told me that he calls her about 10 times a day!!!

Update 2:
She just told me that he is coming to school again to visit her after work and that she won't be seeing him. WTF is wrong with that loser!

Please help me

 

[DainBramaged]

Give me her number, I'll "protect" her.

 

[BigJ]

It's one time, it's no big deal.

 

[nakedfrog]

Geez... I'm not sure any girl is gonna be won back over by crying like a girl for an hour.

 

[spidey07]

just call him and tell him he is not to call, see, visit, stalk, anything with girl without suffering consequences.

 

[Garet Jax]

Call him talk to him for two hours and make sure to cry for one of them...

 

[bigrash]

did your gf tell him that she has a bf now?

 

[y2kc]

i had that problem many years ago. it took the fool a while to go away but he did eventually. i did establish with him early on that i wasn't going anywhere and that he was wasting his time.

he would call from time to time, he would hang up when i answered the phone and she would hang up on him when she answered. he got the message eventually.

 

[pnad]

Cut the dude a break.
Take him out for a beer and buy him a fleshlight.

If he keeps bothering the girl, tell him she is planning to call the police.

 

[Chrono]

that was me sucka. i want my g/f back. bye bye bye.

 

[bo0]

REMEMBER: If he's crazy enough to cry for an hour in a public place like the library, he's crazy enough to do others things. If this is the first time it has happened, let your girlfriend and the crazy ex try to handle it, before picking a fight with him.

 

[thomsbrain]

seriously, the best thing that both of you can do is to not even acknowledge his existence. tell her not to pick up his phone calls ever again, never answer the door if he comes by, don't even make eye contact if you see him on the street. it will actually help him come to terms with it because he won't have any way to tell himself that he still has a chance. resist the temptation to do the jealous BF routine, because it will only convince him that her new BF is an "asshole" and she would be better off with him.

 

[McGyver]

i know what she did last summer.

 

[saymyname]

why are you even worried. Poor guy....

 

[HN]

tell her to have a sitdown with him again. only this time, film it or at least mic it.

 

[sygyzy]

What is a "res"? Also, you should do nothing. Let her handle it. Nothing worse than the macho protective boyfriend.

 

[reverend boltron]

I would definitely not make a big deal out of it if I were you. I'd just kinda take the guy off to the side if you run into him, and tell him, "Hey man, I know it hurts, I've been there before..." and try to be his friend to get him to leave nicely. But cut him some slack if you can.

Originally posted by: Garet Jax
Call him talk to him for two hours and make sure to cry for one of them...

hehe, that was a funny response. :laugh:

 

[Specop 007]

1) File restraining order
2) Shove a pistol in his face and tell him next time he tries to assault your g/f hes a dead man
3) Follow through on 2, SSS baby
4) Talk to him man to man and tell him to FOAD or you'll turn his face into hamburger
5) Ignore him
6) Buy GF Mace. Dont forget the camera too, cause we want pics
7) Speaking of pics......

Take your pick.

 

[MisterJackson]

Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Give me her number, I'll "protect" her.

Dain, you're one honorable dude. You've moved me so much that I too wish to join you in protecting this fair young maiden.....though I wish to "protect her" first, as no one likes secondary protection!

 

[Qianglong]

Originally posted by: sygyzy
What is a "res"? Also, you should do nothing. Let her handle it. Nothing worse than the macho protective boyfriend.

School Residence

 

[ArchCenturion]

Donkey punch that crybaby b1tch

 

[ISAslot]

Send him a copy of you and your GF getting it on, send me one too.

 

[TheShiz]

tell your girlfriend to ignore him, the fact that she listened to that garbage for 3 hours is her fault, that makes him think there still is a chance.

 

[SpunkyJones]

Do nothing, she told him how it is, he'll eventually go away. Nothing to stress about here.

 

[UDT89]

seriously, its nothing let the poor guy get over things. there was no threat there, the guy poured his heart out she rejected it. you win.

be happy.