YAGT: what does this mean?

dpopiz

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there's this really sweet nice girl at school who I've liked for a while and I think she's been giving me signs, but I hadn't made any real moves yet. Today, she said as though she was reluctant and just worked up the courage, "Will you be my valentine?" and for the rest of the day she was waiting outside my classes and wanting to hug and cuddle and stuff. After school I tried to walk and talk with her a little and she was suddenly different, seemed sort of uninterested and shy and when we departed, she said "Thanks for being my valentine for a day."
What does it all mean?!? I got my hopes all up thinking she and I both had feelings for each other and we both knew them.
 

gopunk

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it means you should get over her... life's too short to waste time trying to figure out why weird people are weird.
 

Scarpozzi

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You should forget about her and spend the rest of your life eating pringles, drinking dr pepper, and posting on ATOT.......idolize the comic shop guy from the Simpson's and try to be him.
 

Kadarin

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(a) She's really shy and likes you, but you're not sending the right signals: "and for the rest of the day she was waiting outside my classes and wanting to hug and cuddle and stuff" (You say that like it's icky girl stuff..)

or

(b) She could care less about you, but wanted a "valentine for a day" in order to look good in front of her friends.
 

djheater

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Originally posted by: gopunk
it means you should get over her... life's too short to waste time trying to figure out why weird people are weird.

whoa, that's good.

that's my new motto.
 

GoingUp

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Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
You should forget about her and spend the rest of your life eating pringles, drinking dr pepper, and posting on ATOT.......idolize the comic shop guy from the Simpson's and try to be him.

lmao
 

TekViper

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wait i clicked into this thread expecting to find out once and for all what YAGT means, then get this. what does it stand for?
 

Scarpozzi

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Originally posted by: TekViper
wait i clicked into this thread expecting to find out once and for all what YAGT means, then get this. what does it stand for?

If you've never had to post one of these, you don't really NEED to know what it is. You just need the terrorist survival kit. I think PAB has a picture of that one. ;)
 

KahunaHube

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if you ask me this is a sign that shes one of those crazy girls.
but if you like her i'm sure this warning isn't going to stop you
 

Crimzon

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Yeah, just ask her what's up. Find out once and for all. She took the iniative. Even if it was to have a valentine for a day, as long as you find out from her, you won't waste your time later.
 

michaelh20

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Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
Originally posted by: TekViper
wait i clicked into this thread expecting to find out once and for all what YAGT means, then get this. what does it stand for?

If you've never had to post one of these, you don't really NEED to know what it is. You just need the terrorist survival kit. I think PAB has a picture of that one. ;)



Terrorist survival kit, does that mean that you are suggesting using duct tape and plastic with respect to this girl situation? :)
 

illusion88

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SHE WANTS YOUR MAN MEAT!!

Dude, forget it. Just ask her on a date... WTF do you have to lose? Dont end up like me

No really dude, I regret every minute. EVERY GOD DANM MINUTE!
 

A5

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
(a) She's really shy and likes you, but you're not sending the right signals: "and for the rest of the day she was waiting outside my classes and wanting to hug and cuddle and stuff" (You say that like it's icky girl stuff..)

or

(b) She could care less about you, but wanted a "valentine for a day" in order to look good in front of her friends.
This guy's got it.
 

Keego

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Originally posted by: A5
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
(a) She's really shy and likes you, but you're not sending the right signals: "and for the rest of the day she was waiting outside my classes and wanting to hug and cuddle and stuff" (You say that like it's icky girl stuff..)

or

(b) She could care less about you, but wanted a "valentine for a day" in order to look good in front of her friends.
This guy's got it.

Yeah, I think you were given the chance and you blew it.
 

dpopiz

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I like the idea of asking *her* what it means, but I know in previous YAGT's people have recommended not actually discussing the relationship with the girl because that might ruin things. This girl's a good friend so I don't want to mess that up. Then again I'm willing to take a chance if it means she might become more than just a friend.
 

gotsmack

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Heres what I think.

1) she has some wild idea in her head of what you would be like on a date, what you would do and how great of a time it would be. There is no way you can measure up to this standard unless you are a superhero and your superpower is mind reading and shuper carisma/charm.

2) you didn't measure up, so now she has to find someone else to build up to impossible proportions.


you can ask her out on a date. She might give you another chance but not expect anything. this is your chance to surprise her. don't screw up.
 

Ronstang

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If she is this fsking wierd at a young age....GET THE HELL AWAY FROM HER NOW!!!!!!!!!!! They don't get better........trust me.