Originally posted by: chin311
Originally posted by: y2kc
Originally posted by: chin311
UPDATE
ok, sunday. the day after she got home.
she breaks up with him, said shes tired of how he treats her and she's not happy anymore. every time they've broke up before, they are usually back together the same day, but this time it's for good, she promises that. she wants to wait for me to be with her and is gonna come down in april to visit for a week or so. so we can see where things go, but she's not gonna be with anyone else and we are basically together just waiting to be with each other in the flesh.
any questions? things i should think about? she did this and wants to be with me, so that is kinda crazy, i didn't think it would happen, not this fast. she must be serious?
1. she's too young to be "serious"
2. she's on the rebound
my advice: make no promises, don't fall in love (with this one), expect her to go back to bf and enjoy the ride(s).
1. i meant like serious about "US" or being with me etc
2. i dont know if thats true or not, shes not really a dependant type person
1. i know what you meant. she's too young to be "serious" about anything. 18yo girls=definition of fickle and flighty.
2. her willingness to jump from one relatioship to another reeks of dependence. she needs someone in her life to be happy. she should have left the bf if he didn't do the job. "but noooo", she had to have a replacement lined up before she could pull out.
expect clinginess and lots of bootyjuice for a while, followed by a sudden (guilt driven)distance follwed by a return to the bf.
she's 18, which is fine. i love 18 yo women, they are extremely easy on the eyes so i understand. i'm just saying have fun and protect yourself. if you let yourself go here you could end up hurt.
