YAGT: Went out for a drink with a female friend......

Triforceofcourage

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I went out for a drink with a female friend last night, I was supposed to call the GF around 11:00. She is on vacation with one of her friends right now. I was really tired and got home and fell asleep so I didn't call her. I get a call at 1:00 with her acting really pissy and being really mad. She said she is really dissapointed in me and am really upset.

I am like WTF, I didn't do anything and I don't like being accused of anything. I have never cheated on anyone in my entire life. She has guy friends she hangs out with also. I think she is being hypocrytical. I know I fvcked up by not calling her but I fell asleep. I think she is over reacting.

What do you think?
 

BrokenVisage

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You preface all this with "Went out for a drink with a female friend.."? Of course she'd be pissed! What are you doing going on dates with other women behind her back hmmmm?
 

mattpegher

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Checking in with GF is fvcked up. If thats what she's like drop her now before she gets used to it. Or turn in your balls and lock yourself in your room until she tells you to come out.
 

Triforceofcourage

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Originally posted by: BrokenVisage
You preface all this with "Went out for a drink with a female friend.."? Of course she'd be pissed! What are you doing going on dates with other women behind her back hmmmm?


It wasn't behind her back, she knew what I was doing last night. She goes out with her guy friends and gives me ****** about it when I have a problem with it. It seems like she can hang out with her guy friends but she gets pissed when I hang out with my female friends.
 

Triforceofcourage

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Originally posted by: Viperoni
Does she call you when she hangs out with her guy friends?


Yes, she does call me when she hangs out with her guy friends. I don't ask her to, but she does anyway.
 

Compudork

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Here's how it works: GFs do whatever they want: You get in trouble. You do whatever you want: You get in trouble. You do what GF says: You get in trouble. Do you see the pattern here?
 
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91TTZ

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Banger/Leaver

A guy's best assest against female nagging is the male's ability to simply not give a sh!t.
 

PokerGuy

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Sounds like a whiner and nagger. Dump her now, or at least don't get invested emotionally. That way, when she gets further on your nerves it's a lot easier to say "hit the road".
 

Jassi

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Pics of the GF and Female friend?

I suggest talking to her first to make sure that she doesn't have the wrong impression.


Also, I am so so dissappointed in ATOT.....
 

mattpegher

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Don't put up with that sh*t. Tell her that you don't like her mistrust of you, and do not want to continue the relationship. One of two things will happen, either she will call repeatedly for a while (wait at least a week before talking to her) and she'll learn her lesson (for a while, it needs to be reinforced everyonce in a while) or she'll move on to the next pvssy she can manipulate.
 

aswedc

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How freakin hard is it to remember to call? If you could get home you could have sent a text. I think she has a right to be mad that you can't seem to live up to the simplest of responsibilities.
 

KK

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You should sleep with said friend, that'd give her something to bitch about. May as well do the deed if you are going to catch hell either way.
 

mattpegher

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Originally posted by: aswedc
How freakin hard is it to remember to call? If you could get home you could have sent a text. I think she has a right to be mad that you can't seem to live up to the simplest of responsibilities.

Where is this his "responsibility". "I'm going out with _____ tonight, for some drinks, I'll call you tomarrow." should suffice. What is it with women that they want us to check in all the time?