I read this site for tech and girl advice so please help.
I'm an asian guy, sophomore in college. Never really had a girlfriend and only kissed 1 girl in my life so I am new at this.
Yesterday we had classes off, school was closed. The library was closed too, so I went over to our starbucks to get some work done around 6 pm. It's mostly girls who spend time in these coffee places, I'd say around 70% of people were girls. I start reading my textbook.
A girl is sitting in the chair in front of me, facing away. I didn't think much of her until she pointedly stares in my direction and says "oh shucks". Not sure what this is about.
A couple minutes later she drops some cards on the ground, looks in my direction, and says something similar to "oh shucks". A couple days ago I read that really long thread about meeting girls, so I man up and offer to help pick them up. She is a white girl, reasonably attractive (6.5, maybe 7). I'm rarely talk to girls, let alone white ones who are reasonably attractive, but I offer her a chipotle burrito and she accepts (i had 2 free coupons, was gonna give one to my roommate).
She is pretty studious, likes to read and sing, and works for college democrats and similar organizations. I decided to steer clear of politics (I'm not liberal); we talk about 24 and school. Then I invite her to my place.
We watch a movie, one thing leads to another, we do the deed, and she ends up lying on my chest. I have no idea what to do or say now or even if I did a good job. She starts talking about not being alone on valentines, I just say "yes" in various fashions, and then she falls asleep.
I go to the living room, play some gears of war, slept on the couch. I think I have 30-40 minutes before she wakes up. Today I am completely busy with school/work, but I'd like to continue a relationship or at least get some action a few more times.
What do I do next? I was thinking about making her a bagel and coffee, sending her on her way, giving her my number, and not communicating for a few days. Previous threads here said not to be all clingy and make them want to make the first move.
Cliffs:
1. Socially awkward person.
2. Meet girl, hook up, she's asleep in my bed.
3. No idea what to do next.
4. ???
Edit: I don't know her last name, when I do I will facebook her then put a picture up.
I'm an asian guy, sophomore in college. Never really had a girlfriend and only kissed 1 girl in my life so I am new at this.
Yesterday we had classes off, school was closed. The library was closed too, so I went over to our starbucks to get some work done around 6 pm. It's mostly girls who spend time in these coffee places, I'd say around 70% of people were girls. I start reading my textbook.
A girl is sitting in the chair in front of me, facing away. I didn't think much of her until she pointedly stares in my direction and says "oh shucks". Not sure what this is about.
A couple minutes later she drops some cards on the ground, looks in my direction, and says something similar to "oh shucks". A couple days ago I read that really long thread about meeting girls, so I man up and offer to help pick them up. She is a white girl, reasonably attractive (6.5, maybe 7). I'm rarely talk to girls, let alone white ones who are reasonably attractive, but I offer her a chipotle burrito and she accepts (i had 2 free coupons, was gonna give one to my roommate).
She is pretty studious, likes to read and sing, and works for college democrats and similar organizations. I decided to steer clear of politics (I'm not liberal); we talk about 24 and school. Then I invite her to my place.
We watch a movie, one thing leads to another, we do the deed, and she ends up lying on my chest. I have no idea what to do or say now or even if I did a good job. She starts talking about not being alone on valentines, I just say "yes" in various fashions, and then she falls asleep.
I go to the living room, play some gears of war, slept on the couch. I think I have 30-40 minutes before she wakes up. Today I am completely busy with school/work, but I'd like to continue a relationship or at least get some action a few more times.
What do I do next? I was thinking about making her a bagel and coffee, sending her on her way, giving her my number, and not communicating for a few days. Previous threads here said not to be all clingy and make them want to make the first move.
Cliffs:
1. Socially awkward person.
2. Meet girl, hook up, she's asleep in my bed.
3. No idea what to do next.
4. ???
Edit: I don't know her last name, when I do I will facebook her then put a picture up.
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