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YAGT: Two random questions

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erub

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1. When 'booty' dancing with a girl, can she feel 'it'? If she can, is she complimented,indifferent, or disgusted by it? Does just dancing serve to start to get the girl 'excited' too?

2. At a party on Saturday night, started dancing with girl...(profit?)..afterwards the space that we were in was very small for one person, pretty much impossible for two to sleep there so after debating with myself I decided to leave, I asked her if she wanted to come to my house, a 15 min walk away but I can't blame her that she didnt want to leave her friends..should I have toughed it out tried to sleep there (all sweaty and thirsty I might add) or was leaving ok? I got her phone number so I guess I will find out when I call her today but for (future?) reference, these sorts of things happen to me every 23 years or so, haha
 
So you got aroused while dancing with a girl and turned down staying with her overnight? Sounds like you blew it. There wouldn't have been any sleeping involved.
 
1) Yes it can be felt. Grinding is foreplay as far as I'm concerned. You can bet she likes it as much or more than you.

2) No you should have had a better exit strategy prepared. Asking if she wants to go to your house straight out is much to forward. She would feel like a slut if she agreed. You need to create an excuse or reason for her to goto your house.(omg you like xyz .....I have this super cool abc at my house that you gotta see..lets go) But even then you must have built enough comfort and attraction for her to want to agree.
 
Originally posted by: ghost recon88
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

2) You did what??
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I still want an answer to that question.
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*shakes head*...we had had our fun already in bed (although the place was more like the floor,haha), ya know??
 
1) If she's booty dancing, she knows she will be poked. It's cool...she didn't keep pushing you away when her boobs were squeezed up against you, right?

2) You have her number - call her. Obsessing over what you should have done/how things might have different is an exercise in futility.
 
It sounds like he DID score.

we had had our fun already in bed (although the place was more like the floor,haha), ya know??
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So I'm not sure what the problem is. In the OP, his #2 question basically says "We did the deed, then I wanted her to come to my house. She said no, so I left."

I'd say 100% pure profit. 😎 Get laid-->Girl doesn't want to leave (or see you again probably)-->you go home alone. Super!

Ah, I have such fond memories of my clubbing days. Don't tell my fiancee though. :Q
 
Originally posted by: erub
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
wait time out.......you hooked with her already? but wanted to leave where you were hooking up?
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yeah
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oh then whats the problem.....you hit it and left......bravo. Call her the next day so she doesnt feel slutted out. set up another meeting if you want to do it again.
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: erub
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
wait time out.......you hooked with her already? but wanted to leave where you were hooking up?
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yeah
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oh then whats the problem.....you hit it and left......bravo. Call her the next day so she doesnt feel slutted out. set up another meeting if you want to do it again.
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X2. You may even get to hit it again, though I doubt it. Club hookups are typically one-nighters. 99% of the time, no good relationships ever come out of a club hookup.

I met my son's mother at a nightclub, (though we didn't hook up until the next day). And we all know how that turned out. :roll:
 
I'm confused. You seem to have very little knowledge as far as the finer details are concerned ... "can she feel 'it'?" "should i leave after teh sex0r?" but yet you claim to have hooked up.

I have no doubt that you did hook up, but I'm afraid I'm going to have to go with whaling.jpg on this one.

- M4H
 
1. Yes and she can feel it

2. I would have left too, with or without her. I HATE crashing at friend's parties. I can't ever sleep, so I lay there for an hour or so and then take off.
 
Originally posted by: TUKIN18S
2. I would have left too, with or without her. I HATE crashing at friend's parties. I can't ever sleep, so I lay there for an hour or so and then take off.
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Same here... people always wonder why I want to leave at the end when everyone else stays. I just feel awkward, and especially uncomfortable sleeping on some random piece of furniture.

Also, if they can't feel it, you better just leave, because if they can't feel it on one spot, they probably won't feel it on the other :laugh:.

EDIT: To pretty much clarify, if you can feel them with "it," it's quite safe to assume that they can feel it. I really doubt that they'd be annoyed with you either, I mean... they are grinding against you in that spot for a reason and it's not to give you cooties 😛.
 
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